I tend to be VERY negative about myself. Tell me, do I look pretty?

Question

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Like, do I look fat? Is my smile ugly or just cute the way it is? I seriously need help. High school can be so stressful by the way people look.

Answer 1

u dunt look fat n u look very nice

Answer 2

I didn't look at your photo. I don't need to. You recognize that you have a problem with self esteem, and if 100,000 on this website tell you that you are pretty you still won't believe them - am I right? The problem isn't with your physical appearence, it's with your whole attitude about yourself. Until you love yourself you'll never believe anyone when they tell you you're beautiful. You are worthy of love and you are significant because God made you that way - not because of what other people think. Work on telling yourself everyday "I'm a special person" - make a list of things that are good about you and your life. If you can't think of any, let me give you an idea about things that are good about you, and I've never seen you or talked to you:

you are a sensitive person
you care very deeply about others
you have eyes that work
you have a brain that functions
you have legs that carry you...... not everyone has these things

Things in your life that are good.....
you woke up this morning
you have food to eat
you have clothes to wear (your photo is not a naked one, right?)
you obviously have a computer ... not everyone has these things

now, see how many other things you can come up with that make you a wonderful, beautiful, unique person - and add to that list every day. When you do something kind for someone, add it to your list.... then read your list every night before you go to bed..
I think you'll find that you are beautiful just the way you are!

Answer 3

You actually have a lovely smile - I'm sure people have already commented on it. You look like you're curvy, and lots of guys prefer curves than a washboard. I totally understand your deal - the only people that don't get picked on for their looks are people who are drop dead picture perfect gorgeous , and then people find something else to ***** about them instead!! I was the total ugly duckling- at school I had braces, short fuzzy hair, glasses, had no idea what fashion was, and on top of having a few extra pounds, had the biggest complex ever. My first day at a new school, I enter my new class and this guy in the back yells out - "Wow - isn't she HOT!!" Everyone laughed 'cause it was very obvious that I was NOT. Pinnacle of my school days - a guy that I had a crush on ( a fellow nerd like me) started following me around the school courtyard chanting "Ugly!! Ugly!!" Other students joined behind him forming a cha-cha line. And everyone's chanting "Ugly!!Ugly!!"
All this to say that since school I grew my hair out, lost a few pounds, got contacts,and discovered fashion and makeup. Within 3 months of leaving school, I moved to a bigger town and got my first job modelling for a brand that everyone at school saved their money to buy. I'm now a professional singer and can laugh at my high-school days...but only because it's way behind me. If I could do it all over again -I'd have a lot of fun giving those losers absolutely No importance. There's a scene in Buffy where Cordelia is paying out Zander, as she always does, and Zander just looks at her and smiles and shakes his head. She's perturbed and ruffled, not getting the usual knee-jerk reaction. I would have like to have tried that...If you are happy with your weight, then don't worry about other people - trust me - loads of guys like cuddly chicks, even if they don't advertise it. If it does concern you though, start doing sport and watch what you eat. Personnally, I find you quite attractive. Good luck - and I know it's hard, but take it from someone who's older...try not to take things so seriously...take responsability, but have fun and don't sweat the small stuff.

Answer 4

You look a little bit chunky. Kind of flushed too. I can't really see your smile very well but, you look like you might have small teeth. They aren't yellow or anything like that so that's good. You're about average. Still, people would stop making fun of you so much if you lost weight. Most People automatically assume that heavier people are stupid, have no talent, no personality, etc.

Answer 5

honestly you need to lose a few pounds, i would say 20. i know it will suck dieting and exercising, but think of how good you'll feel when you're a smaller size. other than that you have a cute smile and beautiful hair, nice tan. the only thing wrong is your weight, but that can be fixed so don't worry girl.

Answer 6

I think you are beautiful - i love your hair and you have nice eyes - you look very friendly. There is nothing wrong with your smile and no you do not look fat. I know what its like - high school is far behind me but i am still self concious like you. Logically I know i am not fat and I am pretty - but no matter how many compliments i get - i am still paranoid. It is a hard habit to change. good luck in school!!!

Answer 7

let me tell u somethin im a female with a problem very similar to yours let me tell u something u are only as beautiful as you feel, people talk smack, people hate, u could be very pretty but people will always find something wrong with you! You gotta let your own self be da judge of whether or not you're pretty no one else can answer it for you, God created you in his own image, God doesnt have ugly work. :) hope ive helped or been of some inspiration

Answer 8

Your face seem just fine. However your facial expression tells about uncertainty. You don't seem very happy. Your shoulders are also leaning forward. I mean that you are not standing naturally. It seems to me that you have some tight muscles in your shoulder/upper back area.

These issues that I mentioned about are related to your persona. Your feeling about yourself is reflected to your body. Your body and movements reflects your subconsciousness. From there the true attractiveness come.

Answer 9

You look fine.
Your best feature is your smile, and a girl with a good smile is very attractive in my opinion.

Answer 10

just dont worry about what other people think try your best to be comfortable in your own skin. by the way you arent ugly you are pretty dont let anyone tell you otherwise...

Answer 11

You are pretty and have a sweet smile.. but you are too huge. Pls lose weight if you wanna to be nicer..