he's trynna kill our baby?

Question

i found out im pregnant and told ma boifriend and he's not that happy about it and since we're under 18 we need an adult 2 take us 2 get an abortion and we're not trynna do that because we dont kno who we could get 2 take us so he wants 2 make me have a miscarriage by squirting salt water in me cause he heard that it works but i wanna keep my child so what should i do?????? please help me

Answer 1

You need to first talk to a trusted adult that can help lead you in the right direction. You then secondly need to dump that guy because dang baby if he has no quirks about killing a fetus your carrying then what will he be like when he's older, GROSS!!!! Good Luck hon..

Answer 2

First of all, remove yourself from the situation.
Second, talk to an adult, prefer a parent.
Third, if you want to keep the child, you need to seek medical attention, to make sure you are taking the vitamines necessary, and that there are no other complications.

I don't believe that using salt water to encourage a miscarriage will work, however, inserting anything and squirting any fluid into any body cavity (unless supervised and/or recommended by a physician) is not healthy.

Please seek help.

Stefanie

Answer 3

Stay away from ur so called bf... He doesn't care about you at all... Hes not only tryin to hurt the baby , he also tryin to hurt you at the same time... And you need to go and TALK TO YOUR PARENTS ASAP!!!! I understand what your goin through I was a mom at 16 years old. But don't listen to him. If you really want to keep the baby then go for it. If I could do it, so could you. But u also need to understand that its real hard to be a single mom. You need to breakup with him over the phone or have ur parents do that when you tell them whats goin on.. They maybe upset with you about everything but at the same time they'll get over it and support you... Not only is ur bf not very smart hes not mature at all. And my friend tryed that salt water thing when she was trying to get rid od her baby. Now she has lots of problems. Her daughter has a blood clot in her brain that will never go away, plus she has a real bab heart problem I'm always goin to the hospital with her and her daughter. So don't do that. You'll have more problems then its worth... And I'm sure ur smarter then that. And don't have abortion if you do decide that u don't want the baby then give it up fo adoption theres so many people that can't have children so... But good Luck and if you need anything you can email me and I'll give you my number...

-Michelle-

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And I mean it stay away from him he's dangerous!!!

Answer 4

HONEY--- Leave that man/boy alone. If you want this baby then you need to sit down and talk to you parents. Tell them what is going on and they will find a way to help you. Everything will work out fine. I was a teen mom also. I would also like to say you need to stay away from your boyfriend, It seems to me that he doesn't care about you in order to not take your feelings into consiteration. Also about the salt water thing I have never heard of that, and what were to happen if it didn't work and it just left the baby handicaped? Look at it from all angles. GOODLUCK and think about what I have said.

Answer 5

You both are under age...that right there should tell you that neither one of you should have been messing around with sex. Sex is for adults not for you.

Abortion is not the answer to this problem, the answer is since you decided to have sex which is an adult act, then act like a mature teen and talk to your parents so they can get you the proper prenatal care you need, give that baby up for adoption...abortion is killing a baby.

Your boyfriend trying to do whatever he thinks he can do to get rid of the baby is doing more harm to you than good.

So go talk to your parents right now.

Answer 6

Stay away from him! If he wants to get rid of the baby that bad he might try to do something to you too. There are other options if you don't want to keep a baby. There are many young women who choose adoption or even foster care. With foster care you can sometimes get your child back at a later date when you have grown up and matured. If you want to keep the baby there is help out there for young single mothers. I know that because I was one. Now I am married and have 2 beautiful children. There are options for you.

Answer 7

You need to talk to a parent or adult about this. Second of all don't listen to anything your boyfriend says, this is your body, and your decision that you have to live with forever. He's obviously an idiot. Don't let him do anything to harm you or your baby. Being pregnant probably seems scary, but know matter what you decide let it be your decision, and get to a doctor if you already haven't.

Answer 8

Excuse me for saying this but ur boyfriend is an @sshole, he helped make it he should be responsilbe and help take care of it, you need to talk to ur parents if they feel it is best for u to get the abortion then get it I would not recommend it but it's ur life and u do what u feel u need to. just don't use abortion as a form of birht control be careful next time and use protection. Good luck in whatever u choose!!

Answer 9

First off, tell someone you are pregnant. Second, don't let your boyfriend near you, if you don't take off your pants, he can't squirt anything up there! If you are scared of him, call the police and file a restraining order. I am glad you want to keep your child!! If your boyfriend doesn't want the baby, dump him and go it alone. There are plenty of of places out there to help young/ teenage mothers. The Catholic church is one of them, even if you aren't Catholic. Go to http://www.catholiccharitiesusa.org/ and put in your zip code to find one near you. They will help!! Also check into WIC (Women, Infants and Children) in your area; www.fns.usda.gov/wic
You will still need to get prenatal care and to be examined by a doctor, PLEASE tell somone that can help you.

Answer 10

its gonna be hard but you need to talk to your parents or an adult you can trust dont let him squirt anything anywhere you could harm yourself also and get all kinds of infections talk to an adult asap