Okay, this is strange. I am single, I have a crush on my son's martial arts instructor and I want to ask him out. based on how he acts around me I am sure it's mutual. And this isn't something where my son will go onto the next grade or whatever and then it would be more appropriate. It's a permanent thing with his classes, the teacher will always be there. Should I go for it?
2006-08-10 09:18:08 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, I'm a teacher. A parent asked me out once and I must say I felt really strange about it. It was very awkward when I told him I had a boyfriend. He kept coming to see me and being persistent. Before asking him out, be sure he's available and interested. You can ask him out if you're really into him but don't push it. If he says no the first time, please don't ask him twice!
2006-08-10 09:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 19:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you should pass up any opportunity to find happiness in your life... What if this is the person you have been looking for? You could always disguise a dinner date as a chance to talk about your son's advancement and possibly entering him in competitions. This will help you get a feel if this person is in your same ballpark. Or if you are actually out in left field somewhere.
2006-08-10 09:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by The Eight Ball 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sure that the feelings are mutual, there is absolutely no harm in going for it! If your son has a problem with it, you can always find him another instructor, or find yourself another man. The worst that can happen is he says no!
2006-08-10 09:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Tammy O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave the teacher alone.If you would go out,the other kids would think your son is getting special treatment and things would be rought for him.You could always try a different place for martial arts.
2006-08-10 11:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by kikasman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens if the relationship doesn't work out and you son still wants to take lessons from this teacher.
2006-08-10 09:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by nalashelby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. Well i say start out slow like ask him out for coffee and if you think it can become something special than go from there. But if you don't think it will be worth it then just toss it up to experiance and stay friends.
2006-08-10 09:23:34 · answer #7 · answered by marajjoya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing good can come of you dating your kids teacher. If it does not work out then your kid is left to deal with it at school and it will always be uncomfortable for the child no matter what...be smart
2006-08-10 09:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Creolegirl because what if it does not work out? What then, then it would be very awkward for all three of you and maybe you might need to take him out of that activity.
2006-08-10 09:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by Sapphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And then when all your kid's peers find out you're screwing the teacher and start making fun of him, will you be asking how to resolve that?
2006-08-10 09:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋