can you disagree,and move on, or must you establish who is wrong and who is right,or is this not important?do you fight to win or to resolve issues,or do you have the same neverending fight same face,same place,different day?
2006-08-10 09:15:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Me?
I'd just as much get slapped around than put up a fight.
I mean it really doesn't matter if my chops get busted and I'm down for the count.
I don't see any use in doing anything except lowering my unworthy head, sticking out my worthy fat bum and taking it like a lab rat all the way up through my ears.
By the time the disagreement ends...really-before it even begins-- I'm buried deep underneath my own excrement, begging to die a slow, painful death.
Most of the time, this unique depravity simply upsets the other person even more than if I had gone through the bother of defending my worthless point of view. ...So that's yet another thing to admonish myself over.
Will it ever end I ask.
2006-08-10 16:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Interpersonal collaboration and collective thought is great. In my mind I am always right subject to change if a view convinces me otherwise.
I have my personal principles, my own right and wrong. I enjoy different views but dislike hearing ill informed preconceived notions.
A lot of people communicate with reiterated messages of previously heard arguments. This is okay if there is an understanding of the point.
I am not always right, as I continue to communicate I believe I get better at it. As I continue to get better at communicating I become more persuasive.
Continue asking thought provoking questions and if the questions interest me or are rationale questions to my interest I will continue to answer them.
Thanks for the thought and the question.
2006-08-10 16:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by James H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's nice to come to a new conclusion or become enlightened or enlighten someone else during an argument. It's also good to explore all the possibilities you hadn't thought about that can be brought to light by another person's opinions. If someone is hellbent on being right and not hearing any other opinion, then I don't mind backing off and realizing that they don't want to really engage in an argument ,they just want to give a lecture. I don't mind just staying quiet through that if they won't hear my points. I don't have to be right.
2006-08-10 16:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It isn't about being right, it's about resolving the conflict so that everyone feels they've reached a fair conclusion. There is always the option to agree to disagree.
2006-08-10 16:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by CactusRaven 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My self I can disagree and move on, and if a situation can not be resolved, Oh well, I still live my life as I will.
2006-08-10 23:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think i'm right, and until you prove me wrong i'll be oll for my side of the topic, but if you do prove me wrong i'll definitely revoke my agrument and recognise myself as an idiot if need be.
Except for when it comes to women, they're delicate so i try to be more open in my views with them, and explain to them nicely if they're being stupid. :)
2006-08-10 16:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being right is good, being fair is better.
2006-08-10 16:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋