my crush's mom hates me. what should i do without being a kissup?

Question

i go over to his house and she always tells me he isn't there.

Answer 1

I suggest figuring out what specifically about you annoys her. If it's an atitude or look that she doesn't like, change it around her. If it's just that you're dating her precious baby boy, sorry, you're doomed.

Answer 2

Well- let the guy handle it. Tell him you do not feel welcomed by his mom. If he sticks up for you and talk to his mom, you know he's a decent guy. If he totally down plays it and it's obvious that he could care less- run!

Answer 3

Maybe you call or come over too much and crowd him. Its not she doesn't like you, she just feels like your around too much. I like all my daughters friends, but a couple of them drive me crazy, because if they're not at my house, then they're on the phone with here. We all need a break sometimes.

Answer 4

maby insted of going to his house tell him to met u somewere it better than his mom always telling u his not here

Answer 5

maybe she doesn't want you showing up unexpected, or perhaps he really isnt there. i'd call his cell (if he has one) or his house phone. tell him you're coming over and to meet you outside, or tell him to come to your house

Answer 6

Maybe, just maybe, he's told her to tell you that. It may just be a mother's love for her scared son.

Answer 7

maybe he realy isn't there

well be yourself and just be polite
if itt's you are yourself around her and that's why she hates you, maybe you should try being somebody else

Answer 8

Be yourself and let your bf know the situation

Answer 9

Because you probably come on as a cheap whore.

Answer 10

So you'll need to impress your Crush's mom then.......