i REEEEALLY strongly dislike...(hate) soccer with all my heart.
my dad is forcing me to play, i've already played 1 season, and i really dont want to play 2 more. i've tried talking to him and so has my mom. i cry literally everyday because i dotn want to play, what do i do?!?!?
i've tried EVERYTHING, even my coach knows i dont like it, and he still wants me to play...
i've tried killing myself, its at that point, and i'm crying about it right now.
i really dont want to play what should i do.???
i know i'm good at it, and i know i help the team a little, but i just dont like it and i have no reason. i'm athletic, i do basketball and track, used to ice skate, but i really dont want to play!!!
2006-08-10 09:05:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sports ➔ Football ➔ Other - Football
why do you hate it so much??
haha...how bout faking an injury (wear a brace on your knee or ankle) and tell your coach you cant play anymore so you can just sit on the bench for the rest of the season.
2006-08-10 09:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lola P 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's a tough one. I have always been an athlete and I have coached too. You should never force a child to play a sport he or she doesn't like - no matter how good that child may be at that sport. There are a lot of options (and I hope that attempted suicide is no longer one of your choices). Perhaps you and your Mom could sit down together with your Dad and discuss the situation rationally (if that's possible). Prepare a list of reasons why you shouldn't play this year - not just that you don't like it (maybe you need more time for your studies). Is there something else you want to do instead? If so, be prepared to discuss that. If being rational doesn't work, you could tell your coach to "kick" you off the team - give him a little attitude so he has a reason. Start playing really bad when your Dad is at your games. Fake an injury that will sideline you for a while (even though I hate to tell anyone to lie). I love soccer (and basketball and track), so I can't imagine why you don't like it, but be sure to let your Dad know. Use your Mom for support. I hope everything works out for the best. If not, I'll come play soccer in your place.
2006-08-10 09:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by TJMiler 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear you hate soccer, and if you don't like it don't play it. Can't you get your coach to write you off the team and talk to your father about it? A family counsel at school? You need an adult to talk some sense into your dad.
This question is more family and relationships orientated than soccer really, sorry for the crap advice.
2006-08-10 09:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lumas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, there are three things u could do: come around and learn soccer is the best sport know to humanity or, red card every game for the whole season or till u get kicked of the team or,
tell your dad you've been thinking about sucide because of soccer and hope he gets the picture.
2006-08-10 09:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by Eliza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it abundantly clear that nothing could be worse to you. Tell your coach that if on the field, you wont do anything. You will just stand there, or sit there. Tell your dad how you feel about it infront of large amounts of people.
2006-08-10 12:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by Joga Bonito 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then u shouldn't play, but soccer is a really great sport.
2006-08-10 10:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Kai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start training like other teams does(like Britain, Germany or Brazil).
2016-03-27 07:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Score own goals. Foul the opposition players. Or better still, foul your own players.Get sent off. You have to show your Dad how much you hate it. But it won't be easy! And please don't cry. It's only a game.
2006-08-10 09:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by zoomjet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
since your dad insis to let you to played just try loving this game. watch it a lot on tv and find a team you like, you might state to like it,some time you don't like somethinks , but you grow in time to love it.
2006-08-10 11:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just do everything wrong so they wont make u play. or get red cards every game u play.
2006-08-10 09:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by applepie840 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋