soccer problem..?

Question

i REEEEALLY strongly dislike...(hate) soccer with all my heart.

my dad is forcing me to play, i've already played 1 season, and i really dont want to play 2 more. i've tried talking to him and so has my mom. i cry literally everyday because i dotn want to play, what do i do?!?!?
i've tried EVERYTHING, even my coach knows i dont like it, and he still wants me to play...

i've tried killing myself, its at that point, and i'm crying about it right now.

i really dont want to play what should i do.???
i know i'm good at it, and i know i help the team a little, but i just dont like it and i have no reason. i'm athletic, i do basketball and track, used to ice skate, but i really dont want to play!!!

Answer 1

Firstly, no need to kill yourself over soccer, or even cry about it. However, having said that, I'll try to give you an answer that you may not expect.

You say you are good at soccer, and you team needs you, and you are athletic. So it sounds like its in your realm of something you could be quite good at (and I dont know you and I know you can be good at anything you want). Look at soccer like life. Life is a team sport. You have to deal with other people on your team and the team playing against you. Same as in your job (maybe you dont have one yet, but I'm sure you will). Everyone says they hate their job, or neighbor, and even partents/siblings at one time. However, its best to stay involved and do your best.

- PS - if none of that works, give up soccer and go paint something.

Obviously, I'm no psychologist.

Answer 2

Tell another adult (Mom, a grandparent, a teacher, the coach perhaps - someone you trust) how you are hate soccer and feel like you are forced to play it. If that doesn't work, then just start playing it badly. Kick the ball in the other team's goal, then laugh about it or just sit on the bench in protest until you get heard.

Answer 3

Tell your dad you don't want to play. Be annoying. Keep insisting like 24/7. Tell your coach to tell your dad to stop making you play. Maybe you can get the coach to kick you off the team... Maybe you could try not going to practice. That will get you off the team for sure, and grounded probably. Then you could tell mom to cancel the grounding and talk to your dad.

Answer 4

Suicide is a little extreme. Just keep telling them, they may take a while to listen as they think they know best but eventually you will be able to do your own thing even if it does take a number of years. Yes I said years.

Trust me in the future you will look back and laugh at this.

Answer 5

Stupid refs mostly in the last world cup and people making simple things more complicated like instead of using a normal ball the stupid jabulani and I tihnk we all hated vuvuzelas I hate dirty players both who act and try to harm othe players I think FIFA should review games and ban or fine all the palyers who do awful things like pepe and busquets What pisses me off the most is Sepp Blatter and his stupidity

Answer 6

You have to let them know how much you don't want to play this sport. Sit down and talk it out. But have an alternative to playing sports, and trust me video games and the phone are not an alternative he will accept.

Answer 7

NO 1 SHOULD FORCE U INTO SOMEHTING TAKE CHARGE OF UR LIFE AND TELL UR DAD U DONT WANT TO AND IF HE DOESNT LISTEN THEN TRY TO LAY DOWN AN AGREEMENT EMAIL ME IF U AHVE ANY PROBLEMS?

Answer 8

y do ppl hate soccer? soccer and irish football r the 2 greatest sports on earth.

Answer 9

just sit in the middle of the field.. he cant force you to play

Answer 10

how old r u ??? if ur over 12 f*** soccer they cant make u play...be a rebel...