Why are girls so competitive? I mean, even if we know that we dont have a chance at whatever it is we're competing at (whether it be sports, jobs, relationships, etc.) we are still gonna give it our best shot. And if someone who we know is better for the part, whatever that may be, we get jealous. Why aren't we happy for them? Shouldn't we be glad they got it seeing as how they are better for it after all? I guess my main question is "Why are we so competitive?" and to the guys "Do you like it that we're competitve or is it a sign of low self esteem to you and only pushes you away?"
2006-08-10 08:53:12 · 3 answers · asked by onehot_mama23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's a human nature thing, not limited to girls. And not everyone is that competitive...it's a matter of degree and a host of personality variables.
2006-08-10 08:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by nudie chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a sign of low self esteem and it is a way for you to try to make yourself better so that you feel better about yourself if you get it and she doesn't. I am one of those people that are happy for others when something good happens for them I am comfortable with who I am and what is right and wrong.
2006-08-10 09:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's human nature to be competitive
2006-08-10 08:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋