My 11 yr old daugter has a birthday party sleepover today. It is for her friend from school. All the girls from the class are going. Some of the girls are bitches especially towards her. I have to beout of town tomorrow so she would have to stay with the bitchy girl all day until i came home. Should i let her go?
2006-08-10 08:35:02 · 26 answers · asked by ljelic151 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Come sept she won't be going to the same school as these girls
2006-08-10 08:35:47 · update #1
No, please don't for the sake of your child. If they are indeed being Bitches, then you have to protect your child. She is still young and does not deserve to be treated that way yet.
If you really love her then you must keep her safe, and away from the kids that are mean to her until she is a teen.
Nothing means more to a child than a mother/fathers love... even if the child doesn't say it is.
I hope i helped. And remember that your Child is the most precious thing to you no matter what.
2006-08-10 08:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would suggest calling the Mother of the girl throwing the party. Let her know some of the girls give her a hard time. Also let her know you will be out of town for the day. If she feels this may be a problem and she can't be responsible than I would suggest she doesn't attend. But, As a Mom, I think I would just observe the attitudes of all the girls at the sleepover, and hope it will be a successful evening.
2006-08-10 15:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by ASTORROSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be a learning experience for her. Sometimes u wish u could protect them all the time but the reality is this world can be harsh and girls can be mean and hurt ur feelings. But maybe this will help harden her heart. Prepare her mentally and give her advice as to what to do in case they hurt her feelings to be strong. Besides, shes not gonna be in the school like u said so it'll be a moment that will be replaced with beautiful memories throughout the years.
2006-08-10 15:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Caro*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is typical girl behavior. gilrs like each other one min and not the next. You cant always be there for her to take those people out of her life! She will have to learn how to deal with these kinds of girls on her own. If she wants to go then I think she knows how to handle them. If she does not want to go then dont make her. It is hard to see girls act this way towards our kids. But in reality it happened to us at the age too. We might not have liked it but we got through it. So let her do the same!
2006-08-10 15:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why your daughter would want to stay at some little *****'s house anyways, but I say that if she wants to let her. Unless you think that these girls are going to be mean to her or something. If you really don't want her to go, just tell her that the girls parents said that you needed to come pick her up at a certain time, and because you had to be out of town, you couldn't do it, so she can't stay. I understand your need to want to protect your daughter.
2006-08-10 15:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say let her go. If she is with the bitchy girl and only her all day, the girl might be nice to her because she has no one to gang up on her with. Besides, you don't want your daughter to say you denied her the opportunity to go to a sleepover
2006-08-10 15:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Chaga 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your daughter what she wants to do after all she has to go since you will be out of town unless there is another relative that she can go stay with or a family friend but trust your daughter's decision.
2006-08-10 15:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was some place else, like at a park or a mall, and not at another persons home I'd caution allowing it, but having adult supervision close at hand should eliminate any foul play...As your daughter continues to socialize she will encounter a bad apple in every bunch...she needs to learn not to choose wrong over right...good luck.
2006-08-10 15:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its somthing she really wants to do I would let her go but to be on the safe side i would make arangments if possible with a firend or family member to pick her up if need be that way she can go and still get out if things get too bad
2006-08-10 15:43:27 · answer #9 · answered by lonly_male4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. She may have a really great time. Maybe you could make other arrangements so that if she gets picked on, someone could pick her up since no child deserves bad treatment. Ask your daughter if she wants to go and let her understand that you will be outta town.
2006-08-10 15:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋