Jay and I have been together for 10 years.. Our sex life is real good, we experiment and we are freaky. But it seems that when I go out, guys hit on me and i like it. Then if I see someone I like, I feel so attracted it exciting... Is this wrong??
2006-08-10 08:29:42 · 21 answers · asked by bellita_716 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you ask why no commitment?? We have everything together house, dog, cars.... that's not what I want..
2006-08-10 08:44:51 · update #1
Not at all. Humans have an infinate capacity for love. If you have 4 kids, do you love any one of them less than you would if you only had one? You're not taking all your love and dividing it up like a pie, you simply love another child as they come along.
The same goes for partners. There's nothing wrong with feeling attracted to other people, everyone feels that. A relationship means you're not going to act on it, not that you won't feel it. Anyone who thinks that falling in love means that you will never look at another man for the rest of your life just reads too many of the wrong sort of book.
2006-08-10 08:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by cmriley1 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your relationship is fully like, but you two have been going out for ten years, and you're probably just looking for some more excitement. I mean, I once went out with a guy for two years and still got bored. You probably like getting more attention and more excitement from other guys. Maybe you and your current boyfriend need to take a break to meet other people and then see where to go from there.
2006-08-10 08:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, as long as you look only & don't touch. It's normal to enjoy having other people hit on you...it's good for the ego. Attraction to other people is also normal--it's what you DO with that attraction that can get you into trouble.
But, why---have you been dating this guy for 10 years? Don't you want some kind of commitment other than just dating???
2006-08-10 08:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Froggy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-11 11:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by condon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong until you cross the line...its normal to feel an attraction toward someone else...there will always be someone else that can tickle your fancy...but never forget who has been there for you through thick and thin...Prove to yourself and he that your the real thing...and no one else can change that.
2006-08-10 08:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be happy other men are attracted to you u but do not be more than happy....u have a boyfriend u should be flattered but be like i will not get carried away cuz i already got a nice guy that i am with....do not take more than a smile from the other men cuz u already got someone to do more
2006-08-10 08:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by high school musical LOL! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 10 years you just might want a COMMITTMENT from your boyfriend? Therefore, other men are attractive to you.
2006-08-10 08:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's natural to get excited from attention because it's a boost to our ego and makes us feel good about ourselves and no matter how great your relationship is you can't help but admire a good looking person. as long as it doesn't go beyond looking it's fine
2006-08-10 08:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because you just had great sex, what about good love, good conversation...?if all you want is great sex then you can get great sex from any man that wants sex. that feeling you have is just lust, no commitment intended.
2006-08-10 08:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by Han_dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to planet earth.. you earthling! its compleatly normal and healthy to be attracted to other men while in a committed relationship. call me a pig, but when i'm at the beach with my girlfriend i can't help but notice the other women... its not like i'm gawking... but how can i know how truly beautifull she is, if i don't atleast compare?
2006-08-10 08:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by classy_gui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋