what is infatuation and what are the signs of it ? and what is the signs of real true love?

Answer 1

There are no straight answers to this. Infatuation, basically, is fleeting - it doesn't last. Love lasts.

All the first signs are the same for each - heart beats faster when you see the person, you think about them day and night, you want to be with the person all the time. This rush usually lasts 3 months - as proven by experience and the scientific research. This is due to a key hormone only lasting that long.

When the 3 months is up and being around the person isn't a rush: if you care for them even more then you did before it's probably love but if you aren't as interested then it's infatuation.

Answer 2

There is no real answer to this question but what I have learned of what love is to me and that is the word LOVE itself holds the answer.......

(L)isten: and validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.
If none of these are present then it is Infatuation...