ok heres the deal i want a BOY FRIEND AND A KISS BUT HOW DO I KNOW HE IS GONNA BE THE RIGHT GUY AND WHEN IT IS TIME TO KISS HOW DO I BCUZ I NEVER DONE IT B4
2006-08-10 08:19:36 · 22 answers · asked by blackgurl52@yahoo.com 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
PLZ GIVE DETAIL ON KISSING AND DONT SAY IM TOO YOUN B CUZ I AM 14!!!!!!! hELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-10 08:21:49 · update #1
PPL YOU ARE NOT LISTINING TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GIVE ME DETAILES ON KISSING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-10 08:36:48 · update #2
let me know when you figure out how to "find" a boyfriend.. heheh
and about the kissing, i can tell you somethings..
If you are woried about your first kissing , i have some guy friends that told me what makes the kissing so good:
~After kissing when pulling away GENTLY bite his lower lip , it will make him want more! If you do it strongly , he will think you are an animal.. b carefull!
~The kissing thing is important and all , but the before and after too.. You can't ever be too flirty , so flirt all you want!
~ Some boys like when you pass your hand up and down their back,.
that's pretty much all i can say.. And also, when you are about to do it TRY not to be nervouse, if you just relax you are going to do a great job .
And something else, the first boy you kiss doesn't need to be mr.right .
Your first impressiion of kissing isn't going to be great. Don't expect too much , cause it's normally not that greatr. With time and experience you normally get better and find yourself enjoying it more. k?
so just relax!
=)
2006-08-10 08:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by =) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is instinct, like other people have said on here. But if you're directly facing him and you want to kiss him, remember to turn your head a little bit, whichever way you want, otherwise you'll bump noses and that's pretty embarrassing. Close your eyes. It's not essential, but guys get a little freaked if they see a girl staring back at them while he's kissing. Make sure you don't have stinky breath, but on the flip side make sure you don't have gum or mints in your mouth at the point of contact; sooo unromantic. Your first kiss shouldn't be one with tongue, just kiss with your mouth slightly open, not completely closed because you're kissing a guy you like, not your mother. You might like to hold his hands during the kiss, or - my fave - have your hands around his neck, his hands should be around your back but if they're not, don't worry about it. Well I hope this has helped you, good luck honey!
Love electricarizona
2006-08-10 10:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I met my husband when I was 13 so I know how you feel....now that I am 19 and we have a son together everything is perfect..How do you feel? I followed my instincts so you should follow yours and as for kissing..he made the first move and I just followed. Kissing is not that difficult..your nerves are just getting to you..dont think about it and go with the flow
2006-08-10 08:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Justakid1987 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wanting a boyfriend so badly will make you seem desparate and boys will play on that. Take it easy, boys come and go, so just be careful and don't go kissing every boy you see.
You will know when the right time to kiss will be because the moment will seem right. Don't rush it, you are just becoming a teen, enjoy that.
2006-08-10 08:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by SINGLEMOM4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm 14 also and I HAD ALOT OF BOYFRIENDS.Just look for a cute guy who'll like you for who you are. When you'll find your crush just stand out and be his friend. Don't be shy and play REALLY hard to get.Flirt with him and show him your good side. Act cute and dress preppy. Because your crush won't talk to you if you won't look good. Well when you'll find a " perfect" guy you'll know when to kiss him. First let him know that ur ready but don't attack him and hold his hand ,try to hug him. Make sure your breath smells alright!!!!LOL
2006-08-10 09:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK the right guy isn't any1 who can kiss better the right guy is somr one who makes you feel whole, and happy every time you are near him. But most of all for him to be the right guy he must share the exact same feelings about you as you do him.
2006-08-10 10:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by KA-BOOM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is cute, and he's nice and cool and everything, it may just come to u.but don't kiss on a first date (unless u REALLY want to) wait 4 a 3rd date or a 2nd date to do that.You may be still getting to kno the guy.
Hope my advice works!!!
Emii ♥
2006-08-10 08:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? Emii ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14. You don't need a boyfriend. Wait two years then find a boyfriend. Enjoy life as a child! You are also to young to date!!
2006-08-10 09:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 12 and i kissed a guy before but we broke up and you will know how to kiss trust me
2006-08-10 09:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by hot&single 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be the best kisser in the world but if they are a crappy kisser it's gonna suck no matter what you do. i wouldn't be as worried about myself as i would be worried about "mr right" and chances are, the first guy you kiss will not be the guy you marry. if it is, well sucks to be you because you're missing out.
2006-08-10 09:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by 1 Hott Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋