Even though I love giving it and I am good at it too, for some reason she doesn't like me to perform it on her.
2006-08-10 08:09:37 · 13 answers · asked by Charlie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I knew a woman once, a long time ago, who didn't like it. She's the only one I've ever known. It is certainly unusual.
All you can do is talk to her and try to learn why. I suspect she thinks that it is "icky" in some way. My guess is that while you're doing it, she imagines what it would be like to do it and that's what turns her off.
Let her know how much you like it, that you really get pleasure from it, and that you really want to do it for her. If it is really important to you, ask her to visit a sex therapist with you.
2006-08-10 08:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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My wife doesn't like cunnilingus, what can I do?
Even though I love giving it and I am good at it too, for some reason she doesn't like me to perform it on her.
2015-08-16 16:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. I LOVE to give oral pleasure to a woman and have been complimented on my abilities without exception from those wanting to receive. My wife really loved it at the beginning of our relationship but changed and has now been adamant for many years that she doe not want it. Her logic is why should we do it if it's supposedly "for her" and she does not like it. I have no idea why this has changed and I miss the experience of tasting and feeling her *** from my oral attention more than anything in this world. All of our conversations over 20+ years have not moved her but in fact made her even more rigid. Unfortunately, I feel (as several previous guys have posted) that you are destine to a future of not being able to realize the wonderful joy of providing oral pleasure to this woman. I hope I am wrong but that is my experience.
2016-01-18 13:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you aren't doing it right or she would be climbing walls in ecstasy instead of trying to get away from you. Pick a time when you have actual time to talk and really communicate how you both feel. Be nice and don't play the blame game. You want information. Not to nurse your wounded ego.
2006-08-10 08:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by madamesophia1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, she doesn't think its good? Or....not every girl likes it, I don't and one of my best friends didn't like it either, not every girl is the same, maybe it's just not her thing, ask her about it, if it's just that she doesn't like how you do it, ask her how she'd like it
2006-08-10 08:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you dont know where your suppose to be licking or, she may be a bit shy about that certain area and thinks she may offend you with odor or something, you need to reassure her that she tastes wonderful and try showering together first, getting her in the mood is important, your not at a buffet , slow and easy is the key
2006-08-10 08:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by phantasy 59 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 20:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by capetillo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try waking her up by performing...with the haze of sleep, she may just be able to get into it. some women are self conscious and have a hard time relaxing enough to enjoy it. catch her off guard and maybe it will work out
2006-08-10 08:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by hotmama 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ask to be moved to another jail cell you liar.
Apparently you think you can ask a stupid question to get people to describe oral sex.
2006-08-10 08:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are not really that good at it, just a thought.
2006-08-10 08:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋