2006-08-10 08:07:56 · 12 answers · asked by stormyblythe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am just kind of curios about the whole things it looks fun and who knows how to please a woman better than a woman right?
2006-08-10 08:15:32 · update #1
i'm the one who brought it up
2006-08-10 08:17:50 · update #2
we have talked to a woman and her husband from a few states up and they are up to it they are going to watch and when its over we will satisfy our husbands they wont be a part of me and her together except watching
2006-08-10 08:41:54 · update #3
If your relationship with your husband is very strong, the two of you have discussed it, and you and he are both sure you really want to do it, then by all means go for it. My wife and I have been there, done that, more than once, and it has not harmed our relationship in one bit, in fact it actually made us both closer. As for the people telling you you are a dyke because you want to try being with another woman, don't listen to them. My wife is bisexual, not a lesbian, a lot of women enjoy both men and women. As long as your marriage is strong enough to handle it, just discuss it, lay down hard ground rules BEFORE it happens, then go for it. Enjoy the full spectrum of your life and have a good time, I would however recommend you NOT choose a friend. Choose someone whom neither of you will see on a regular basis, that can get a bit tricky. I hope this helps.
Just my 2 cents worth
2006-08-10 08:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by capbarrow2 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do not invite another person into your marriage.. this will weaken the bond that keeps you and your husband together. I think your husband is being very disrespectful to even mention the idea. It is degrading and often hurtful and very damaging. Be careful about what you want. That is my advice. But you are an adult and can make whatever decisions you feel are right for you.
The fact that you are asking us for approval makes me feel that you are having doubts about whether or not you really want this. Unless you are 100%, say no. This has the potential to destroy your marriage unless you are *both* absolute on your desire. You may feel cheap and used at the end of this affair. Don't let yourself be used like a toy.
If you are considering a threesome. .be prepared:
How will you feel if your husband spends more time with this other woman in the bed?
How will you feel if she is prettier than you?
How will you feel is she is better than you? Will you even ask the question?
If she is more experienced?
Will you become jealous?
If he compliments her, will you feel hurt?
Will you feel degraded at all by this affair?
Make sure this is what you want, and talk it over with your husband very thoroughly about the behaviors and attitudes you both expect.
(Since you brought it up, you might ask your husband those questions)
2006-08-10 15:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Spiked Coffee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What man wouldn't! I would be afraid of liking the woman to much and becoming a lesbo. I hope your not a jealous type. What if your man leaves you watching and going at it with another woman. I think this is a way to get some strange. Who knows but I think all that stuff is confusing.
2006-08-10 15:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you and hubby want the same thing...it more then likely will happen.
Be careful though. There are emotions and feelings that you and hubby may not be thinking about. Be prepared to deal with them. Would it be worth it is it put a wedge between you and hubby? Just a thought.
2006-08-10 15:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no. i had a friend try that one time her and her husband tried that whole swingers thing and he wanted to see her with another woman and she was all for it the whole try anything once if you like it do it again and she tried it and she didnt think it was her at all and she didnt want to do it anymore and her husband got mad and now theres been nothing but tension ever since .
2006-08-10 15:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by Matt C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do it.Most men are always curious on how would it be to see their significant other with another partner, some prefer same sex &some prefer the opposite sex .So go ahead and have fun as long as he can deal with it.
2006-08-10 15:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by xallata 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
cant think of any reason why not, if u both want it...go get it.
2006-08-10 15:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Are you a dike? You probably are if you want to. Lesbian.
2006-08-10 15:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to go for it
2006-08-10 15:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by jordan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to than why not.
2006-08-10 15:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋