if you tell another woman to stay away from your man and she dosnt what should i do next?

Question

i have asked my boyfriend one of his x to stay away and she didnt woman to woman she still tryed to come between us now she hasnt came around so i can give what i said i would

Answer 1

confront your man and tell him that she is nothing but trouble and if he respects you he will tell her to f off.

Answer 2

The person you should be checking is your man. A woman can only go as far as he allows her to. If your man has given her the STOP sign very directly and she still keeps coming after him, he may need to see law enforcement because she could be stalking him. If he is smiling in her face and having conversations with her, then he needs to stop it. He may be telling you one thing and doing another. Don't be a fool! I would not resort to kicking her a**. This could get you locked up plus you should never fight over a man. It is so uncouth. You and your man must form a united front and any chickenhead that tries to penetrate it will see that they are wasting their time. That's how you really kick their a** without breaking a sweat!

Answer 3

I know that that situation can be hard because you want her to go away and never show up! You have to try to relax for a moment and think, maybe she is jealous of what you and him have, or she can't imagine him with not just you anyone else, You have the advantage he is with you and if your bond is strong everything will be alright. Make sure you share your feelings with your man and let him know you fell strongly that she should not be coming around the both of you and if he is somehow stringing her along to cut ties because your trying to have a relationship with him and if he is a man of his word everything will be okay! Good luck and i hope i gave you a little hope that things will get better!

Answer 4

Wow. I am in the same position. My bf's ex has been calling him every day for a year and a half and emailing randomly - he says he never answers and has told her to stop. A couple of suspicious emails back and forth and I made him block her number and delete all accounts she has access to. I am not going to confront his ex directly, though. It's his business. It's his job to be a man and take care of it. I pushed all of my ex-boyfriends out of the picture, he can do the same.

Don't get into a catfight. It is disgraceful and immature. Your boyfriend needs to deal with it and if he can't, maybe you need to start asking why.

There's another woman forcing her way into your happy relationship. Your boyfriend needs to understand that everytime his past pushes into the present, it makes you insecure and hurt. It is damaging your relationship and weakening your commitments to each other. You need this woman out of your life - he can't move on with you unless she gracefully disappears. You must have his support. Less focus on the ex and more on the man.

(Though, I admit.. I have often dreamt of hurting the little *****.. )But don't do it.

Answer 5

Has your boyfriend asked her to leave him alone? Perhaps the problem is not her fault if your bf is still in her life. You can always tell her diplomatically of course to stay away but if your bf chooses to have contact with her than he is provoking the situation. If he is in contact with the ex, you never know what he is telling her about you. Many men keep ex's in their lives for when they are horny because more than likely those ex's will come back when they are needed.

Answer 6

You are barking up the wrong tree. Let me tell you something - she wouldn't come snooping in your life if your man kept the door fully closed. You should be talking to your man about this - and HE should be the one solving the problem. She is not your concern, and has nothing to do with your relationship. The problem is with your relationship. You need to come to grips with that - and fix the problem at the core of the issue.

Answer 7

Get a male friend and go around to all the bars and have him post a note in the men's room with her name and phone # and the fact that she likes to do kinky things. Then go in the ladies room and post notes that say if your husband is cheating then it is with this person and give her #. If she wants to disrespect you then you should make sure she pays for it. And if boyfriend doesn't like it then dump him, he is disrespecting you also.

Answer 8

Confront your man, there must be a reason why she keeps coming around. Men do tend to lead other women on, and we not know it, but don't jump to gun. But do tell him how you feel on a heart to heart talk and let him know you mean business.

Answer 9

I totally agree with Christopher. You need to check your man cause she's not coming around for nothing. What does he have to say about it? Maybe he is the type that likes girls fighting over him. You need to check up on it.

Answer 10

Girl I know the feeling and all I can say is women like that are lucky they have laws in place to protect their sorry behinds and lastly you better make sure that you man isn't leading her!

Answer 11

do you trust your boyfriend that's the question you have to ask yourself. If you do leave it alone you have nothing to worry about. If you don't the the question you need to be asking yourself is should you be with him in the first place.