2006-08-10 07:52:08 · 39 answers · asked by artface 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hunny, More than ever, we at the end of the last century were finding ourselves with big houses and broken homes, high incomes and low morale, secured rights and diminished civility. We were excelling at making a living but too often failing at making a life. We celebrated our prosperity but yearned for purpose. We cherished our freedoms but longed for connection. In an age of plenty, we were feeling spiritual hunger.
Communication, understanding to one another. The give and take is very important.
Best
2006-08-18 08:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by TRANSLOPEDIA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very easily....... I have a long time friend who I ran into 6 months ago. We got involved after 15 yrs of not seeing each other. I found out he had warrants and so on. Nothing to to serious, but not exactly perfect. He is gone now and will be gone for a while. I know he is no good for me and I can never let him back into my life. Yet I do Love him and he loves me. We miss each other sooo much it hurts. Its something you need to come to terms with and realize that its just not meant to be. Thats why the situation is the way it is. Things happen for a reason. I now have a new boyfriend of 3 months now and I am happy and share a stronger love for him with meaning and lots of hope for the future. Unlike what I would ever have with jailboy....... Hope this helped...
2006-08-18 06:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens....you can love and miss someone but when you live together that's when you know the true colour of each other. This is when understanding, tolerance, the ability to give and take comes in. If these two people really understand each other, they will love each and to make each other happy, a bit of sacrifice will go a long way.....
2006-08-18 05:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it's because you both are so much alike and you need space for it to work. Not saying that you dont care for each other just that your ways when in the same house/flat etc cause a reaction. It also seems that you test each other to see who is the leader/boss or whatever. It makes me think what sort of jobs you do, are you both leaders or followers? Sit back, chill out and think about HOW you could get on and not too much time pondering over how you cannot!
2006-08-18 04:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Titch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is actually VERY COMMON!
Usually it is because they are either exactly alike or polar opposites. In the former case, they are attracted because they see themselves in their mate. But, they don't get along because each finds qualities in the other that they don't like within themselves and find it repulsive. In the latter, they are attracted to different qualities that the other person possesses and they don't. But, they are repelled by the totality of the differences.
In either case, the resolution comes with learning coping mechanisms and behavior modification to accomidate each other.
Love doesn't JUST HAPPEN and remain the same. It changes over time, takes work and effort.
2006-08-18 05:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by camilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I've lived it for two years. I used to ask myself that all the time. How can I love him so much and he love me, yet we can't be together. It sucks, but it can happen. Just hang in there and if thing are meant to be, it will happen or at least get better.
2006-08-10 07:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Susa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read an article about relationships some time ago. One big test in a relationship is (according to article) can you be in the Looe together. Even after a Vindaloo, Guinness and pickled eggs. Some couples never manage it and there relationship is never complete.
2006-08-18 05:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by Chelski2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because sometimes when you are around someone 24/7 then you'd probably start to pick fights with each other. But you still love them. You just can't live with them, but then again you can't live without them. Am I right?
2006-08-10 08:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ressa08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a matter of difference between heart and mind. The probably care deeply for each other in their hearts, but their minds are on different levels, and the two will just not mix.
2006-08-18 06:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by mamajo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not always enough. Compatibility is a big issue too.
Also a problem is often the closed in feeling of a live-in relationship. We all need our own space and when you feel this is gone you need to get it back.
2006-08-18 06:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋