my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and within this time we never use protection and he never pulls out. For some reason I have not got pregnant. Is something wrong with? or is it just a mind thing?
2006-08-10 07:50:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Your actually questioning this? Do you want to get pregnant? You should be on your knees thanking the Lord your not preganant. Please use some common sense and get down to the Walgreens and buy some condoms, for goodness sakes. I can tell you from experience that sometimes it takes awhile to get pregnant. When my wife and I decided to have children, it took us over 15 months to get pregnant. We have friends that it took nearly or over 2 years for it to happen. But it did happen eventually. Your playing with fire and eventually you will lose. Consider youself very lucky and go get some condoms. Wow!
If you want a baby thats great, but lets get married first, travel, enjoy your youth, further your education, get a great career, plan for your future, buy a house, and then think about it. Your also setting yourself up for some hard times. Young, broke, and children can be a very bad mix. Think, think, think.
2006-08-10 08:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are wanting to have a baby you need to see a doctor. infertility means you have been actively trying to get pregnant for at least 12 months and havent. there could be a number of things wrong. one of you could have a hormone imbalance, you may not be ovulating, your fallopian tubes could be blocked, etc. he may have a low sperm count. all of the above can be fixed by a doc. or maybe you are both fine and your timing is just off. try using ovulation kits and a menstrual cycle calender and have sex every other day from days 5-15 of your cycle. my husband and I are having trouble right now and have been trying for 14 months. but i think i may be pregnant now. good luck to you and i hope you succeed very soon!
2006-08-10 08:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by Stevie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you cant have children so go check with a doctor!...Or also it can mean that HE cant have any children so you both should get checked!...But you should start having protected sex just in case you van get pregnant without being married and just run out of your LUCK!
2006-08-10 08:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you arent ovulating during those times, or maybe it just hasnt happened yet. Do you use birth control? You mentioned that you never use protection, but I assume you only meant condoms. Maybe you should talk to your OB/Gyn for a fertility test. Your local drug store have them too. If you test (fertility), ask him to do so as well.
2006-08-10 07:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, me and my husband have been together for 5 yrs, and married for 3 yrs, we thought getting pregnant was easy its not, we are still trying. Tell him to let his balls hang free, w/ boxers, and yall just relax, and just in case go to the doc. to see if ur fertile, he's the only one that can give you a true diagnosis, not anyone on here. aiiight :)
2006-08-10 07:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by KayB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go see a doctor, there may be something wrong with you that is preventing you from getting pregnant
2006-08-10 07:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by red_rose_430 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be you, could be him.
most fertility clinics want you to be actively trying to conceive for six months without success before they'll start running tests.
don't assume that you can't get pregnant just because you haven't yet. if you do want to get pregnant, that's fine, but if you don't, you'd best start using some protection.
2006-08-10 07:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by kwanyin_mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We have one daughter and we've had 1 miscarriage. We never used anything either. It just happens when it happens.
2006-08-10 07:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by greenstone_greensmoke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just luck! If I were you I'd make him use protection!.
That is a serious gamble and at some point you are going to loose.
2006-08-10 07:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might not be you! it could be him.. think of it that way too.
it can take a healthy couple up to 12 months to get pregnant when they are really trying (charting etc.) If you are serious about getting pregnant look into this, it's helps!
http://www.fertilityfriend.com
2006-08-10 07:57:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋