i some times get shy around ppl i don't know. i want to loose that habit. i need i deas to start conversationd cause when i talk to person i get lots of silent moments. i hate that! plz help.
2006-08-10 07:37:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh and this sometimes happens with my friends
2006-08-10 07:38:36 · update #1
AHHH
akward silence.
During that silence, inorder to kill it..
say soemthing funny and random..
like...
I puke sometimes..
or.. my favorite color is green...
orr....I secretly watch dora the explorer.
something funny and random.
it should break the ice and cure the silence.
You need to start living life liek tehre is no tomorrow.
Live with no doubts and NO WORRIES !
Dont be shy !
BE HYPER !
BE FUNNY !
Be .. YOU
I hoope you learn that being funny and silly and having fun is nothing to be ashamed of !
DO ITT !
HAVE FUNNN WITH YOUR FRIENDS !
JUST LIVE !
2006-08-10 07:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Ms cool pants. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness is natural and can be overcome.
1. Don't fear silence; too many people say stupid things just to fill the space with noise. some of the deepest thinkers will speak only when what they say will be heard.
2. Purge shyness by striking up conversations with complete strangers; it will teach you that not everyone is a wierdo.
3. Ask questions and make comments to sales people or others that you do business with - it will exercise #2 and brighten peoples' day. If they're not busy and/or there is no line behind you, it doesn't hurt to have a 30 second conversation with the grocery store cashier.
4. Say good morning/afternoon/evening and goodbye to people, even strangers, to exercise #2 and #3.
2006-08-10 07:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 03:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i am shy like that too. haha i no it sounds retarded but try writing things that happened down. thats what i do. so when theres a quite moment you can remember what you wrote down so you could be like oh and did i tell you what happened yesterday!? it always works for me. I know it sounds silly but it works for me!
2006-08-10 07:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by TheHillsLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to keep in mind that MOST people are thinking about THEMSELVES. that should help put yourself at ease a little bit. enjoy your life and socialize when you feel the urge. I am not really a large crowd, social kind of person ~ and i accept that!
2006-08-10 08:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋