now it wasnt what it seems, me and 2 of my friends were at a park where he works as a lifeguard (there is a pool at this park). Me and my friends were goofing off having fun, we did no damage to the park in anyway yet this morning when i was talking to my lifeguard friend he said he was about to call the park patrol on us. What should i do, i really like him but at the same time, i want to stick up for me and my friends, we werent doing anything wrong. At the same time i was talking to my lifeguard friend i was also talking one fmy friends i was hanging with on AIM, and i told my hanging friend what my lifeguard friend said and now my hanging friend hates my lifeguard friend. My friends i was goofing off with are my age, 15, my lifeguard friend is 17 if that makes a different, and all 3 of my mentioned friends are guys. I want to stay friends with all of them, obviously, what should i do? and who is right if anyone??
2006-08-10 07:25:26 · 12 answers · asked by Bryn H 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
my friends and i didnt do anything wrong, we were playing on the equipment just like every other person at that park does. My lifeguard friend yesterday particluarly hadnt heard anything from his PM, if he called the park police it would have been all him, thats why i think he didnt
2006-08-10 07:40:12 · update #1
we werent at the pool, the pool is in the center of the park and the equipment surrounds it, me and my friends were at the equipment and my lifeguard friend was in the pool at the time
2006-08-10 07:41:35 · update #2
Your lifeguard friend just got b*tched out by his boss for letting his friends screw around so he was trying to save face and look like he was doing his job. Like he wants to have to deal with that. Your other friend just needs to grow up (even 15 year olds can act a little more mature than that!) Just forget about it all and keep having fun while you're still a kid! If you friends keep being jerks, though, drop 'em and spend more time with the ones who care about you.
2006-08-10 07:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 15. . .you do crazy stuff. that's a fact of life. Maybe your lifeguard friend was afraid that would make him look bad. After all, he is in a position of authority at the park and is responsible for people's safety. All it takes is one irate parent that saw the situation but didn't know what was going on to call the park director and your friend could be out of a job. For some reason, teenage boys can make parents nervous. I'd cut your lifeguard friend some slack--especially if he was working at the time--and maybe promise not to act like a dope around him when he's working. As far as who is right. . .I vote in favor of your friend. You shouldn't put him in a situation where he needs to choose between being a friend and doing his job responsibly.
2006-08-10 07:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by wrknhrdngttnby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont blame your friend for getting mad at the lifeguard friend if he didnt do anything wrong and the guy is threatening to call the cops! I would be mad too. Maybe the lifeguard guy got in trouble for hanging out with his friends on the job. Dont worry. guys dont stay as mad as long as girls do.
2006-08-10 08:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by momma2jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask the lifeguard what if any rules did you and friends break? If you did break some park rules tell him you're sorry and explain to your friends that what we did was wrong.
2006-08-10 07:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...no1 tht is your friend just calls the cops or thregthens to, i am thinking it didnt go down like you are describing, were you running, screaming, horseplaying or anything like that? if so, and i bet you were then you are to blame, now i dont know what kind of person you, your friends, or the lif gaurd is and i dont know the whole story so i cant make an honest decision, but by what you described he is your friend or he would have called security, you should respect his athority and admit that you may not have been in your best behavior, now as far as your other friends, if they dont like you cause your friends with some one they arent then they are childish, i have friends that their best friend is some one who i beat up in highschool and still hate, but im ok with that cause i cant make their decisions for them and i want to stay friends with him, so tell them to get over themselfes and grow up
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2006-08-10 07:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by popeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...he's just being an idiot..you must have pissed him off or something..my friend did that to me and now we are married and have a son together...did u talk to your friend who made the threat? Confront him thats what I did..see what his problem is and try to work it out...if you cant see past a little issue...then the friendship cant be worth saving if there is tension in it..take care and good luck
2006-08-10 08:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by Justakid1987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u didnt do any damage then-were u making a lot of noise? Little stuff like that can make you do community service! Cops will do watever they can to make u do something!! So-stick up 4 urself
2006-08-10 07:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by 12 yr old boi crazzi gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can call the police officials for something, no matter if or not they do something about it truly is distinct. they'd choose a search for warrant to seek her abode. they'd likely tremendous him for dropping their time if he keeps at it. i don't believe of you should stay with him, are making plans on shifting out?
2016-11-23 19:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that u want to remain pals. And ask him why he wanted to call the cops on u. He couldn't of called the cops on u if u weren't doing anithing wrong.
2006-08-10 08:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? Emii ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick up for urself. if you didnt do anything wrong, then speak up, or else you might have to deal w/ the consequences of going to the police when you did nothing.
2006-08-10 07:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by fashionistaqt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋