He already have a baby.Well we had sex da other day and and he did what he did in sisde of me.Then after we finished i asked him if i got pregnant from him would he be mad.But he hesitated about answering it.So when i told him i might be pregnant he told me to keep it to myself.But see im the type of girlfriend where i do what ever i gotta do to keep my man here wit me.But i have a bestfriend that i told about it and she asked my boyfriend Jamal and he got madd at me and didnt want to talk to me and a whole bunch of ****.So when i find out if im pregnant or not i think he gone leave me.Even though when i asked him if i am pregnant will he stay with me and he said yes but iono.
2006-08-10 07:22:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
hes probably jus scared i wouldnt stress it but dont let him force u 2 do anything you dont want to do...its YOUR body he cant control what you do with it
2006-08-10 07:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by Hypnotiq 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are too young to have a baby and having a baby does not keep a boy/man around.
You need to stop having sex since you do not know what you are doing being that you are not even a grown woman yet.
What you need to do is keep your head in those school books, get a high school diploma, go to college, get a good job, find a good man to marry and then have kids.
If you think having babies keeps boys/men around then you are in for a rude awakening...because it does not work that way. Apparently you have a very low self esteem if you have to go out and do some crazy stuff like that and lack of self respect for yourself.
Stop trying to be grown when you are not grown.
2006-08-10 14:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, why in the world do you even want a child right now? You're posting in the teen/preteen category, so obviously you're under 18. Having a baby this young is the biggest mistake you will ever make... it will tie you down financially (money-wise), and educationally (making it hard/impossible to go to college, and maybe even finish high school) for the REST OF YOUR LIFE.
Having a child will NOT make your boyfriend stay with you. Your boyfriend already left one girlfriend to raise a kid by herself, so chances are he's not going to stick around to raise another one with you.
He isn't worth it anyway. Why would you want someone who says, "Keep it to yourself." when you say you might be pregnant to be the father of your child? Dump this loser, go to Planned Parenthood to get some emergency contraception pills to make sure you don't get pregnant, and wait for another man to come along that will treat you right.
P.S.- You and your boyfriend obviously do not understand the full physical and emotional responsibilities that go along with having sex. You NEED a form of birth control, whether it be condoms, birth control pills, or depro provera shots, or you have a very good chance of getting pregnant. Pleeeeease go to Planned Parenthood.. they will be a lot of help in educating you how to take care of your body so you don't get pregnant or get a nasty STD.
Either get educated about sex or STOP DOING IT.
2006-08-10 14:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by bettalover 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should never have sex with a man who you dont know you will be with in the morning. He is going to dump you as soon as he finds out your having his baby hon. He left his other baby mama and what makes you any different. I dont mean to sound cold hearted but he wanted sex and thats all he wanted to use you for. I am sorry for you if you are pregnant. I guess you gotta get used to being a single mum because the da is not gonna be there for you. Dump him now becuase he is verbally and emotionally abusive and do not have unprotected sex until you are married and ready for a baby
2006-08-10 15:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by marishka 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How come you are doing unstability in your life? Meaning, you "don't know" but you are still with him and having sex with him knowing their is a possibility that he will leave.
I think you should be on birth control and using condoms. Especially him encouraging it as he doesn't want any right now.
You both are young and for him to have one child as it is, think of how much responsibility and financial he has to do even MORE.
That is a little too much.
I recommend re-thinking about being sexually active with him.
"keep it to yourself"
uhhhhhh lets see. It takes two people to have sex to make a baby.
That comment he made is a major RED FLAG.
If he truly loved you and wanted to be with you, he would support you and be true to you.
His attitude seems like he is at flight risk of not being. He sure isn't being supportive or saying supportive words.
Re think it. You got whole life to live and he isn't worth you messing up your life.
2006-08-10 17:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
.You sound young and unsure of this recent activity. Are you financially able to care for a child? The system isn't an answer either! I think you need to use a reliable method of birth control and not rely on the public to pay for your unplanned mistake. Besides, if you haven't talked with your boyfriend about it, then you definitely aren't ready for a baby
2006-08-10 14:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kids,having sex and cant even use proper grammar how sad it is. Obviously he is using your fast little @$$ becuase if he cared for you he wouldnt be sleeping with you in the first place and for him not to want to help if you are pregnant shows you he used you for sex!! I guess you are going to be alone,pregnant and living on welfare..what a bright future your child will have..Congradulations on the decision you made to have sex hope it was worht it
2006-08-10 14:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by landscaperschick73 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you went and were stupid (again).Girl, what do you expect? You are acting like you want to get pregnant and have him happy at the same time. Keep your panties on and quit acting like something super hot. Obviously this guy could care less about a baby and you are going to give baby a lousy life.
2006-08-10 15:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think you're gonna be with this guy for the rest of your life, stay on your birth control and don't get yourself pregnant with a child he may not want.
2006-08-10 14:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should not be having sex, obviously you need to go back to school to learn to spell and use proper grammer. If you are not married you should not even be thinking about raising children. Another kid on welfare, excellent!
2006-08-10 14:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
CHILDREN ARE NOT TOOLS, SO YOU CAN HANG ONTO YOUR BOYFRIEND. THEY ARE A BIG RESPONSABILITY AND THEY NEED TWO LOVING, CARING PARENTS THAT ARE COMMITED TO EACH OTHER. IF HE ALREADY LEFT A CHILD WHAT MAKES YOU THINK YOU ARE ANY DIFFERENT??? DON'T TRY TO TRAP THE MAN, THAT IS DECEITFUL. AND DONT BRING ANOTHER UNWANTED CHILD INTO THIS MESSED UP WORLD, WITH A STRIKE AGAINST HIM ALREADY.
2006-08-10 14:34:03 · answer #11 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋