told me i need to talk to different people, but i donot know what to say, the other day, i just caught myself saying i have no relation to these people (a group who wanted to talk to me) and went away silent as they came, my friend told me that i am pretty scared and shy too i have a problem, please help!!
2006-08-10 07:09:13 · 4 answers · asked by spider-joe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you have to improve communicative skills. read some self development books.
2006-08-10 07:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm like that too. I'm not shy, just quiet. I used to get extremely drained and exhausted and frustrated when I tried to "change" myself and try to be more social, but now I don't even try to and it works better. I make friends easier and get along with people better. I suggest you don't try to change too much. It will only frustrate you.
2006-08-10 07:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend of mine had the same problem!!! start out with complimenting something of theres or ask them what brand somthign is. if u go to school with them ask them if so-and-sos class is hard or what did u do type of thing!! even small talk can get u more social. it maybe difficult but it will help!!! good luck
2006-08-10 07:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by katiedid_4077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is start speaking your mind to people and when people have a conversation that your interested in just say what you have to say about that sitution
2006-08-10 07:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by mz.sexybody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋