How do i become popular over the summer by fashon and changing attitude. because all of the girls at my school are popular and i dont know what to weah or how to act and i am really nearvous..... HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-10 06:57:21 · 21 answers · asked by blackgurl52@yahoo.com 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'm 14 and I'll be in 10th grade this year.If you wanna be popular shop at Hollister, AE, A & F, Lacoste, L.L Bean, etc,... Never shop at Hot Topic!!!!Try to be nice to everybody and hang out with popular crowd. Act cool and follow latest fashion trends.
Be outgoing. Shyness is not gonna help you.Always smile, dress cute, don't act shy, act sweet and very nice.Study and do all ur H/W. Don't think that somebody is better than you. Always look happy and control yourself. Be confident . Walk with confident. Join a club and play sports. Most popular kids are preps. Preppy sports: cheerleading, lacrosse, softball, etc,.....
good luck
2006-08-10 09:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be MUCH happier if you just focus on being yourself.
It's been my experience that 'the popular kids' are hated by pretty much everyone else in the school, and they're only popular to each other. They're fake and base their friendships off of brand name clothes.
Dress the way that makes you feel the prettiest and most confident, whether or not it's a style you'll see in a magazine. Smile a lot and be friendly to people. Try to make new friends, and most importantly, try not to be shy. Very soon you'll find a great group of friends that genuinely care about you and love you for who you are.
2006-08-10 14:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by bettalover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Popularity is NOT all that it's cracked up to be. Everybody seems to base their whole life on being popular while they're in school. What's going to happen once you graduate? All that working to become popular will have been a waste, because once you graduate, none of that matters. Here's my advice: just try to focus on your schoolwork. Don't worry about what people are thinking about you, and hang out with people you're comfortable around. I can tell you right now that if you get in the popular group, you're not going to be comfortable. You'll always be worrying about what the group thinks about you, and you'll never be able to relax. Just go with the flow and see what happens : )
2006-08-10 14:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by cleatus!! the pig! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
â¥the secret to popularity is maturity. if someone picks on you in any way, smile and walk off. Also, Constant smiling helps. never stop smiling. Be nice to people. Do not say anything bad to anyone. Don't get a bad name. Those popular kids you see on TV that are constantly ridiculing people, that is not the way to get popular. If you are planning to be like them you will not get popular. And if you get popular like that (you likely won't), but if you do, it will NOT last long!!!!!!! Good luck!!! Smile!!!!
Also, walk with your head held high. Don't care what people think of you. If someone tells you he/she doesn't like you, just move on. There are many people that do like you. Be outgoing, not shy, and don't slump when you walk. Don't be a kiss up, but be nice to the popular kids. Know how to start and carry through a conversation. Be confident. Don't be afraid of people.â¥
2006-08-10 15:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is being popular anyways? I used to be the same way. I changed my lifestyle to be someone I wasn't and became uncomfortable in my skin. Then one day I met someone who was a lot like who I used to be and started hanging out with her more. So, she wasn't the most popular girl, but I didn't care. She was a true friend. Not someone who liked me for what I wore, what team I'm on, or who I was dating. Why be popular and blend in with all the "populars" when you can be yourself and have a great time the way things are? Just make a statement for yourself of your own choice, and if they like you, they like you. Understand?
~*Kelsey
2006-08-10 15:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be popular. I am in the popular group at my school the one you probablly hate. It is all full of superficial people. I have given up on all of my old "dorky" friends and it makes me feel evil. So honey I sugest just staying away, because once you are in you cant get out.
2006-08-10 15:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Isabella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cool-but don't act like a clone of a popular girl. Try making friends wit a popular girl. I kno how u feel-I have the same problem.
2006-08-10 15:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? Emii ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally I'm not what u call popular but I'm known and thats because I like to be myself. But u can get popular by trying to be cool with the gurls that are popular. And wear well known styles of clothing for example: G-unit, Baby Phat, Roca Wear, Applebottoms, Levis, and, Dickies.
2006-08-10 14:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by Kay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
y do u want to b popular?
If u ved lived the life of a non popular person-u hate them! So if u b come popular every1 will hate u but the "pops"
in other words-u may get guys quicker but get enemies even more quicker!
so-dont b come popular
but if u really want to
b come a cheerleader and make friends with the popular ppl and become mean and meaner
2006-08-10 14:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by 12 yr old boi crazzi gurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get drunk, get high, become a slut, and do anything a guy says
oh yeah...and get n eating disorder
I'm a jock at my school(football team), but when it really gets down to business all we want is someone who looks good and is not a total slut. everything above is what guys don't want.
The fact is that you will only be popular for that 4 years of high school and then where will it get you???
NO where
2006-08-11 00:26:45 · answer #10 · answered by program dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋