I have been with my Bf for almost 3years in Dec, this year has been the hardest year because we have been on and off with fighting with each other non stop ,really do love him but i am going to a new school and he's going to be at Jc still, things are just changing. i'm only 21 what should i do, should we take abreak or should things just be over? i really care about him but i feel like we can't even talk anymore i just really don't know what to do, so any suggestions please i'm willing to take..... thanks
2006-08-10 06:54:17 · 5 answers · asked by Princess84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Princess, if you're unsure what to do, do nothing. Just fill your time with getting adjusted to your new school, new people, new studies, etcetera, and your boyfriend problem will take care of itself. Either he will miss you and your relationship will improve or he'll move on and fill his life with his own agenda. Either way, the issue will improve.
Take a deep breath and quit allowing this to be a stumbling block when you're trying so hard to prepare yourself for your adulthood (the rest of your life, kid!).
While life tends to throw difficult times at us in an attempt to help us grow strong, if you allow those obstacles to paralyze you and clutter your mind with angst, you're defeating their purpose.
2006-08-10 07:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly people are going to say you should stay together if you love him. Others will say you are young and not to tie yourself down.
My advice, follow what you truly feel in your heart. If you love your bf and want to have a future with him, then there is no thought needed. If you are having doubts about the future but currently know you love him and might want something, talk to him about it. Let him know how you feel.
If you don't think things will work out, then you would be doing yourself and him a favour by taking a break to figure things out.
All in all, its your decision and while people can give advice, you need to figure out what is best for you.
Good luck.
2006-08-10 07:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by CJ B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 21 a grown woman. as you get older things change. can yo u trust eachother if not you don't need to be 2 gether. if there is not trust you can't have anything. arguing people have ups and downs. ask your self if you need to be with him. only u can answer that. are you happy? if not leave. or just tell him that you need some space to get your thoughts together. just remane friends right now.
2006-08-10 07:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by Diamond22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to follow your heart. a break for awhile can't hurt. is it worth being constantly stressed from fighting?
2006-08-10 06:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by Aunt Mair á?¦ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with him alot like 2 times a day it is all he wants it worked for me
2006-08-10 07:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by casey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋