2006-08-10 06:51:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
XXXXXXXXXXXX mom says, as long as you are not divorced you can get it. In other words, it's not Cheaper to keep you. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-08-10 07:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. Get your own retirement plan. You're leaving her, so you shouldn't be trying to cash in on her benefits, how shallow. Unfortunately for her, if there are funds and investments which you two have shared, due to her hard work, the court will decide how the money/property is to be divided. You should be more concerned with maintaining a decent friendship after your divorce, not how you can hold on to her benefits.
2006-08-10 14:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why you are leaving. If with cause, Yes, 1/2 is yours. Good luck...sound like you are going to need it. Of course, if you have a retirement plan, 1/2 that is hers. IF you do not, I am surprised that she didn't leave your sorry butt. What is it? Has she been supporting you all these years? Nice job if you can get it.
2006-08-10 13:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the state you live in everything is 50/50
2006-08-10 13:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally you should, depending on the state, also half of her 401k etc - just like she would get half of yours - make a list of everything you can think of and let your attorney know - I love this kind of warm split!
2006-08-10 14:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve half of what SHE worked for nor does she deserve half of anything you invested to live on. One more thing you are a LOSER
2006-08-10 14:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the one who is leaving, why do you want her money? You want to leave not her, why do you have to be so greedy!
2006-08-10 14:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, why do you care about taking your wife money? you are in trouble or something. get a life, and be a man.
2006-08-10 13:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no if you had kids maybe but you seem like a real *** hole, you shouldn't uv ever married her uf you just want her money
2006-08-10 14:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by jshb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y is she leaving? if its your fault no u dont get anything. if it was hers, yes your entitle.
2006-08-10 13:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋