2006-08-10 06:31:49 · 8 answers · asked by jasmine 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
:) because u've been able to be happy on ur own. that is great! u don't depend on someone else to make u happy. u can be self sufficient, take care of urself, etc etc.
the thing about relatioships is that it should bring two Whole people, who are self sufficient and happy and positive and just "good" people on their own right...and FUSE them together to create something completely new, fresh, exciting.. something u'll never be able to have on ur own. but that doesnt' mean u are deficient if u haven't found it yet.. it means ur in for something AWESOME when u finally find it. that's why it's worth it to have standards for urself, and standards for ur future guy, and what kind of relationship you want (please, i hope positive, healthy, and happy!). so when u find someone right, u will be ready and willing to contribute all u have, because u are a whole and beautiful person. :)!
2006-08-10 06:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Different people need different things in life. If you are able to be happy without being in a serious relationship, then good for you. You are stronger than a lot of people, so be proud of that. Maybe someday you will want to love someone and date, and maybe not. Just do what makes you happy-that's what life is all about.
2006-08-10 06:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Deja Entendu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Jasmine,
Obviously you make yourself happy, as only you can anyway. Your friend makes themself happy too - in a way they like.
That is good! You don't have to have a date or lover. The human body can derive pleasure in many ways. Pleasure is usually (sexual pleasure) for the purpose to procreate - perhaps you don't want kids and you are happy with that decision also. So, you are in tune with your needs.
2006-08-10 07:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by BuyTheSeaProperty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how you define love. If love only means sex, the your friend definitely may not be happy because sex does not bring permanent happiness. it only brings the desire to reach out to someone other than yourself and be accepted.
If love means being open and accepting to others, the you definitely are not happy.
Secret o being happy; learn to love yourself for who you really are and love others, for the best they can be.
2006-08-10 06:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by cj 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people are secure by themselves others need someone to validate them.
2006-08-10 07:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by dreamgirl4myboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your happy with yourself, then you can be happy, dating or not. As long as you are truly happy with yourself.
2006-08-10 06:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly_lilly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People are different and have different needs.
2006-08-10 06:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds OK to me.
2006-08-10 06:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by yahoohoo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋