she was working in night club when i just met her and we start to like each other and i asked her to stop working as bit**(fking around) and i 'll be the one who will support her(financial). and she agreed.
and we stayed togother 5 years... long distance relationship. sometimes i go stay in her country 1 or 2 month. and i come back to my country for of my work, and somtimes she is the one who come to my country and stay with me 4 or 5 month only and go back to her country because of her mother and doughter!!! we stay like this 5 years.
and always we fight in the phone or in person ( like any other relationship ) jealouse,...etc..
and at one day 2month ago i get angry to her in the phone i said bad bad words to her after that i tryed to contact her many many times to say sorry and i sent alot of text msgs saying sorry but she didnt accept that or even to give me chance to talk to her or reply even!!!
and now, she keep calling me she want come back! after she fk around in bars???!
2006-08-10 06:27:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i was very very nice and faithful to her through tthese 5 years. i loved her to much and i gave her everything she need. i gave her my heart , my mind, my time, my money , i gave her the care and the love. i was faithful with her. i tried to made her happy in this relationship in this 5 years!
yeah, i admit always we fight but i think this normal in the relationship am i right??
but for her she said she got tired from problems and suddenly she decided to broke up with me without telling me that..! she stopped answering my calls, she stopped to reply my text msgs!! she didnt give me chance to talk!! and after one week from last call she decide to broke up and immideately she go back to her old work where i met her first time 5 years ago!! and you now what this work... bar and going out with customer and sleeping with them!! for money!!! i was waiting her to come down coz i thought she just dont like to talk with me and i didnt expected that she back to worked!!!!
2006-08-10 06:42:12 · update #1
the question is why she broke up with me without any strong reason?? !! i didnt do somthing bad to here??!! and why she decided to broke up without telling me or even talk about that??!! she just decide and go 4 broke up and work back all this in one week only!! and me i was waiting 4 her i thought she just mad only??!! i dont expect that to happen??!! where is the love ?? where is the 5 years relationship??!! it's just like that??!!!!!!!! tell me guys whats going on here??? and now after 2 month she called me and she saying i missed you and wants the relation come back!!!! how its hurt what she doing now?? she hurted me and she want to come back now!!!!! funny!!!!
2006-08-10 06:49:34 · update #2
I have an idea! Take her back NOW! Then when you get aids,herpes,or another STD you can go crying to her when she decides to go back to the bar and **** someone else. Boo-Hoo! Cry all the way to the clinic!
2006-08-18 06:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by jotay57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for the fights... Well no two people ever agree on Every thing all of the time. So disagreements are going to happen. I am not sure to what the extent is when you say ya'll always had fights..... It may be normal yet it may not be. No ya'll should not have had fights Every time ya'll talked and seen each other... not every time. When ya'll seen each other, ya'll should have both been over taken with joy and passion, if ya'll had really loved each other. As far as why she went back to work and broke up with you, well no one on here can answer that question, only one person can, and it would be your ex. You have to ask her that. Maybe she had valid reasons and feelings that you did not know she was feeling or thinking.
2006-08-18 04:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Fantasy Kel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to take back a prostetut? It certainly didn't take her long to go back to her old job. You are living in different places and a long distant relationship with a former hooker doesn't sound to good. She is taking you for the money and you apparently don't trust her and that's the reason you are fighting all the time. How can you be certain she hasn't been selling herself while she was with you. I am sure there a girls available where you are at right now.
2006-08-18 02:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're better off without her. Sounds to me like she can't be trusted. My bet is she was doing things all along that you probably wouldn't have liked. A person can get away with a lot of "fun" when their boyfriend or girlfriend live in a different state, let alone a different country. Pick up and move on. She's done.
2006-08-10 06:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there i think that it's not you the problem that it is her.She is doing that cause maybe she did never stop doing it and you just didn't know cause it was love at long distance how could you tell that she was faithfull to you all this time.
Don't you think that it is really weird cause after two months she is calling you back and want to get back with you,for me i think that she was seeing another man and he had promise her everything and so...much more than you and that's when she did not tell you why she broke up with u anyway.
Me i would take it like that she is a user and like to use other to get what she want's and you did fell into is litlle tricks and now you are the only one who is feeling guilty about and i really think you should not feel guilty at all cause that happen to me about 3 years ago and believe me i was devastated but now i know who he is in fault,it his him cause when he see's me anywhere like at the grocery store etc... he just take another direction to go and i know that he is guilty cause he can look at me at all he is always getting his head down and run as fast as he can to not be in my way,i know that he is ashamed of what he have done to me.
Believe me youare better off without her cause i think that she will always do that to you,people like that never stop doing to those things to others people they are just users and like to make other people feel bad or guilty about something that you haven''t do at all.
Anyway that is your decision and i wish you luck in your future relationship with woman from Brigitte G(bizcatblue)
2006-08-18 02:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by brigitte g bizcatblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her back. It doesn't sound like you two want to be together anyway. If you can't trust her then how are you going to leave her alone for months at a time? It sounds like maybe she's having a hard time financialy and wants you back so you can take care of her, not because she wants you.
Find someone closer to home and forget her.
2006-08-10 06:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sensei Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To put it to you bluntly, she does what she does because you let her. You have become her private retreat. Whenever shewants to move on from one guy to the next, you act as her layover point. I know this is going to sound harsh, but she is just using you. My mother told me something along time ago and it has proved to be absolutely correct." A leopard never chacges it's spots." You should honestly kick her to the curb and get on with your life before she uses you up. I know it hurts, but it is nothing campared to the pain of letting it continue. You sound like a nice guy. Find a woman who appreciates you as much as much as you appreciate her. As long as you let her use you as a doormat, she will.
2006-08-18 06:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by fnfordlover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take her back , she is just using you. Sounds like she is a total user. She will never change. Move on and find a nice girl. There are lots of them out here. If she has children they are to be pitied. poor children , born to worthless woman like this. Do not take her back. You can't be that hard up.
2006-08-17 13:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feels like a similar subject i'm in. yet my ex didnt cheat on me, yet or schedules basically replaced lots because of the fact of school and what no longer, so we stopped having each and every of the exciting that we did contained in the commencing up. He needs to advance up is all. an excellent sort of fellows who're like that jut don't be conscious of what they decide on unilateral it somewhat is to previous due and so do no longer in all probability be conscious of the thank you to act in a courting. My ex replaced into my past love and that i've got tried each and every thing to come again mutually, even nevertheless it does not artwork because of the fact i'm nonetheless in college. in case you i've got any emotions for him, then the two u circulate directly to shelter your self or you progression on and make your self chuffed and in line with possibility sooner or later he would be waiting to be a real guy approximately it and you will settle for him back. We adult men do in comparison to showing our emotions, yet texting you in line with possibility his way of asserting sorry. each and every from time to time we ought to pattern human beings to be conscious of what that's we unquestionably need. yet Dot settle for something much less. each and every physique is physically powerful nevertheless, do no longer waste the time on him, whilst he's not on you...however the destiny hasn't been written, so watch and notice what happens.
2016-09-29 03:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by bugenhagen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude , had a friend in a similar situation , get rid or her now . My buddy stuck with his girl and she drain him of his money , everytime he got paid , and cheated on him , and never really even called him . It was also a long distance relationship . Get out now !!!
2006-08-18 01:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋