I am 27 years old and i never have had sex. because i love a girl and i will marry her within 1 year. we know each other since 5 years, we never have any physical relation. Even i never have had sex with other girl too. what i think, when i will marry, i want my wife virgin, in the same way my wife may be thinking. Some times i think i shoul go for it with some other girl not with my GF.
what you guys and girls think about this matter.
2006-08-10 06:15:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no dont ever do that buddy.......... ur gf mite feel bad n will never trust u if she will find that u have lost ur virginity b4 wedding.........if at all u want, u can have it b4 ur wedding with ur gf ........ its very painful 4 a woman, if her life partner is not a virgin TRY OUT BEING LOYAL 2 HER .....this is secret of a happy married life
2006-08-10 06:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by simi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were both virgins, and I would not trade all the loving and learning we have shared TOGETHER for all the wild flings, one-night stands, and "friends with benefits" my friends had in high school and college. Keeping yourselves separate allows you to communicate on a deeper level without the complications of pre-mature intimacy. Trust me, you will not regret keeping yourselves pure until your wedding day. And your wedding night- WOW. Best wishes to you both! :)
2006-08-10 13:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by runninggirl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all about if you get a chance...
If you get a chance with your girl friend before your wedding.. go for it. If you didn't get a chance.. then stay virgin.
If you think it is not good to disclose it to your future wife, It is okay, but remember she has the same right too.
Freedom must be equal. Not biased.
2006-08-10 14:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi, Janu..
When you could control yourself till 27, why you want to break the situation only for another year left. Be a good boy and promise that you will have it with your g/f turned wife, to whom you shouldn't ask her status for heaven's sake!
2006-08-11 01:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should not. I think your cool because of holding out. You are a strong man. Good luck
2006-08-10 13:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's perfectly natural.
2006-08-10 13:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by Rance D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋