Do you think it that it would make you feel guilty if the woman you are going to marry is a virgin who saved herself for marriage and your not a virgin???
2006-08-10 06:11:03 · 24 answers · asked by ♥Ty ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well.....my opinion is that there may be a little guilt feeling. to be honest with, i would feel guilty. thats why im smart and think things out before doing them. right now, im just waiting for that special someone for me. i already found her but im gonna wait.....after all, im still in high school.
2006-08-10 06:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't make me feel guilty. I guess the question should be reversed. Is the "christian" girl that has saved herself, okay with marrying a "christian" guy who hasn't. If she believes that strongly about it, will she look down on the guy for not believing the same way.
Why would the guy feel guilty about this, it is a personal decision. As long as he respects her decision, where does the problem lie?
2006-08-10 13:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by Highroller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilty
2006-08-10 13:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that actually happened to me. I made a mistake, even though the child is not a mistake and lost my virginity in high school and it resulted in a child. When I found the of my dreams, my wife, she was a pure virgin. I knew I messed up and confessed my sins and take good care of my daughter and my wife completely understands. If she wasn't so understanding it might make me feel guilty a little.
2006-08-10 13:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah probably a little, but people make mistakes when they are young and hopefully he has grown up and matured for the woman of his dreams.
2006-08-10 13:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by Murfdigidy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, so you're another one of these "christians" who only chooses to be religious when it suits your interest ??? Were you being a "good christian" when you had unwed sex ?? In your words, no you weren't. But that didn't stop you, you chose NOT to be religious at that time because it didn't serve your interest. Religion is heroine for the masses and you are a perfect example of why religion is a joke.
2006-08-10 13:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well i would feel guilty, but not as guilty as if I had cheated on her. I would feel more like "i wish I could of waited like she did".
2006-08-10 13:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by stud989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it would take me by surprise in this day and age, and i probably would not believe her, a woman who is a virgin after 18?..yeah suuure.
but, it would also make me feel special, because I was good enough to get such a pristine and self-confident person.
2006-08-10 13:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if the guy has made mistakes and feels bad about them thats one thing if he repents and has asked god to give him a whole ness again then i dont think its okay to ruin your virginity but if you turn your life around and ......................... well do you know who donny more is well look him up and give him this question
2006-08-10 13:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by elmotheodd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..i like virgins
2006-08-10 13:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jason Linde 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋