I'm going to a party at a college tonight. I like to have fun and party, but my friends are all really good girls. I used to be like that until this summer when my bf starting taking me to parties.
My bf told me there will be 8 guys in the dorm and i'll be the only girl, so to bring friends. None of my girls will go, thinking it's bad idea, and don't think I should go.
I already promised i would go, but would it really be a bad idea for me to go tonight? I mean it's just fun and my bf will be right there... What do you guys think?
2006-08-10 06:02:37 · 23 answers · asked by misomeow 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I already know everyone will get drunk and smoke and stuff. But it doesn't bother me
2006-08-10 06:07:14 · update #1
Well I think you should go cause nothing will happen if you're with you boyfriend. I guess your friends just don't wanna come because they think it's a bad idea you go because there will be 1 girl there, but don't worry, everything will be ok.
2006-08-10 06:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋
Don't go! Any one of those boys could slip you something and take advantage of you. Your boyfriend could be taken out real easy.
Even if nothing bad happens you could have a terrible reputation. It only takes one person to say that you had a gang bang with 8 guys to ruin you.
Don't go, not without at least 4 other girls. There will be other parties. Just tell your boyfriend that you want to party with just him tonight.
2006-08-10 14:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sensei Rob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you are just setting your self up for trouble. 8 guys and one girl? Come on, you should use your brain! And when you say "party" you implement that alcohol or drugs will probably be used, which will definetly not bring about a good situation. I don't know how old you, but if you're old enough to date you should see that this is just putting yourself in danger. Obviously your boyfriend doesn't care about your well being because he introduced you to partying in the first place and wants you to "party" with 8 guys. He is definetly not a winner. I suggest you follow your friend's advice becuase they truely care for you.
2006-08-10 13:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by muslimah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that it is a good idea!! I don't like being the only girl ever because what happens if they start ganging up on you and trying to rape you or something even if your bf might be right there with you, I really don't think it is a good idea!
2006-08-10 15:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by chrissiewild79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would your boyfriend be able to defend you against seven other drunk/high guys with more testosterone in their little fingers than most men have in their whole bodies? Especially if he was high/drunk? Would he be able to make good decisions based on sound judgement? Especially under extreme peer pressure?
Hon, take my word for it, and the word of the guys that are have already answered your question. Be safe, respect yourself, protect yourself, DON'T GO.
Better your boyfriend should be disappointed than you endthe night doing a rape kit in a police station.
And your boyfriend of all people should respect that decision. If he thinks you're a loser for trying to protect yourself, YOU need a new boyfriend.
The fact that you asked indicates that you're having your own nagging doubts about the whole thing. Listen to your instincts!
2006-08-10 13:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by runninggirl23 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Duh! That is a bad idea, and you're friends are smart! Why are you dating a boy that doesn't want to be good? It seems to me like your boyfriend is trying to make trouble and if you're underage and he's not, he can get into a lot of trouble! He might want to get you drunk that he can take advantage of you! Which that is rape! You should dump that big jerk, because there is more "fish in the sea"! How do you think your boyfriend is worthy to date you? Looks isn't all there is to a relationship! Does he honor your views? Does he respect you? If not, Drop him like a hot potato! I looked at your previous questions and he's not worth your time! He wants to rape you, then he wants to dump you when you have a child! And that is wrong! I wouldn't trust him or his friends! Don't be suprised if you go, and tomorro you'll be on here asking for advice for some quick birth control... it is very hard to push off one strong turned on man, not talking about eight... and when they want to have sex with you when they are sober, how hard do you think it will be when they are drunk! I'm going to be VERY proud of you when you make the right decision!
2006-08-10 13:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lorla 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
o k you really think that just cause your b f is there it will be all right???if you want to party do so but going to a party like this is NOT a good idea I would bring at least four friends and if they won't go then go, but don't get wasted i think you are going to need a clear head to get away FAST
2006-08-10 13:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by jeanette98070 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a bad idea to mix alcohol, smoking, eight boys and a girl. I know that your boyfriend will be their with you, but it is still a bad idea. Plus, your boyfriend told you to bring friends with you for a reason and it wasn't so that all of you can sit around and talk about Shakespeare. I don't know your boyfriend or his friends, so I can't say what they are like, but don't even put yourself in a situation that has the potential for going bad.
2006-08-10 13:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by writeroftheyear1 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
So, I was just reading your other questions....I was wondering why you trust your boyfriend so much when he literally tried to rape you once before. Maybe not rape, but definitely unconcentual sex. He was mean and rough right?? How your you feel if it was him and 7 other guys.?? whoa! that sounds bad. And as for your otter question, I think you are a virgin. Who knows if you just got a small cut.sore from no lube of what. You are a not a virgin anymore when you have consenting sexual intercourse. Please please stay home. Drinking and drugs make people do bad things.
2006-08-10 17:23:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a gang-bang in the making !!! It just doesn't sound like a safe place for a girl to be even if she is with her boyfriend. Sounds like a bad idea and I'm a guy !
2006-08-10 13:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by gozedown 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
This is the worst idea in the history of bad ideas. Do not go, please. There is every likelihood that someone will try to make you the "guest of honor" if you get my meaning.
Please take care of yourself and avoid this party.
2006-08-10 13:08:35 · answer #11 · answered by Otis F 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋