Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 years and I truely am in love with him the only thing is that he is lazy. He doesnt do anything and I feel I do it all. He doesn't work or go to school. Which he should be. I work fulltime and take care or our 6 year old I want to be with him but find myself feeling like we are going nowhere.
2006-08-10 05:57:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He does have somewhat of an income and he does help out with certain things. It's just he is always putting off important things that he knows he needs to do to do nothing.
2006-08-10 07:00:48 · update #1
THE ONLY SUGGESTION I CAN GIVE YOU IS TO. GIVE HIM AN ULTIMATUM!! IF HE CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM LEAVE HIM ALONE. I HAVE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT. AFTER AWHILE YOU GET FRUSTRATED AND TIRED OF DOING EVERYTHING. IT IS NOT WORTH IT!! I UNDERSTAND YOU HAVE A CHILD TOGETHER BUT HE IS NOT SETTING A GOOD EXAMPLE TO YOUR CHILD.
2006-08-10 06:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by ms_anikiat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from exprience. Leave. It's hard but it's the best thing you can do. He's not being a man and taking care of your child. He's seems like he's holding up your life. Don't ever let anyone do that. He needs to be a man and get a job and stop freeloading off you....
2006-08-10 06:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men r animals some just make better pets,so if u love him & know that he loves u to there is nothing to ***** about it`s hard to find & man that aint lazy even if he would work when he comes home he will still be lazy & man is nothing like a women we never give up we can go to work, come home cook,clean house, & still on the go but men like to relax thats just how they r. just give him time he will get a job & support yall but remember men aint here to take care of a women it`s a to way street women gotta support there family to
2006-08-10 06:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not a good example for your 6 yr. old. That should be your main concern. Are you in love or in Lust. You can be in love with someone or just in a routine and think you are in love or be in lust and like the sex and the little things he says or does. But not working and not helping is not a good thing. Lay down boundries or work on your self esteem and more on.
2006-08-10 06:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by J J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop enabling him to sit around and do nothing. I guess he eats from the food you buy with your own money and uses all the household supplies, right ? Where does he get spending money from ? Stop the gravy train so he will have no other choice but get moving.
2006-08-10 06:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question that is what happen to me, told him that i love him and got rejected by him. But still love him no matter what he do. I think that type of love is call eternal love. I too didn't expect to have an eternal love for him, i thought it was everlasting love, but it wasn't. for if you love him everlasting love forget about him but if you love him as an eternal love, continue to love him no matter what he do. That is the highest love that a human could give.
2006-08-10 06:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a habbbit
2006-08-10 06:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by king 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋