I've told my husband many ideas and opinions on different things to almost no response or reaction. Then someone else will say the same things and he's all over it and in agrees with them. Why not me?
2006-08-10 05:51:49 · 10 answers · asked by Fleur de Lis 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had the same problem in a relationship of over twelve years. Any opinion from a complete stranger was more valid than mine, even in the area of my degree programs! In fact if I said something it was automatically suspect.
I left her and found someone who respects me. Best choice I ever made.
2006-08-10 08:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by No Drama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband likes his own ideas best, but he is usually willing to hear my thoughts too. He knows that I am the type of person who likes to think just about everything out before I commit, so it is expected of me to have a variety of ideas when we have a discussion. However, it is a topic or subject that I know nothing about, he will ask for advice from others and that is okay with me, but still I usually tend to then, research that idea a little and put in my two cents. I think it is okay to get information from others, but is also important to value your spouse's opinions, even if you do not always agree.
2006-08-10 13:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by manderin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your husband this question, because we could all give our two cents about why we think this is happening, but you should consult the root of the problem. let me ask you a question, If you can't talk to your husband, then why are you married to him?
2006-08-10 12:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by Yahoo! Answers Chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because he wants to see how many people would agree with him or me. Before making a really big decision. Sometimes its good sometimes its not.
2006-08-10 13:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husbands the same way. hes always on the other persons side with my husband i think he knows i love him and has to feel like everyone likes him. he has to be the center of attion.
2006-08-10 13:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by robin w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! everyone who married hv same problem with them. husbands think that wife is stupid they dnt hv brain and they only great then us. this only problem with mens in the world. husband means first he hv respect the values of wife then only he will become a good husband and good dad also. listen friend u first ask u r husband wat his problem with u. and u explain him u r problem i think then u will be happy
2006-08-10 13:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by neema s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it eithe rbc my husband does the same thing! I think they just get tired of us being right all the time but we can't help it! lol
2006-08-10 13:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by leenabootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is true you are bothered but
put your self in his shose, do you like him to aks you to change your life style becuase he think it is better.
i think you will be bothered.
people outside home you can not be rude to them if you want to gian thier friendship and spend nice time with them.
but you are living with him 25 houre "his wife" so it could be very difficult for him to feel uncomfortable in his home.
do not ask much so he accept your query.
2006-08-10 13:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants you to dye your hair brown
2006-08-10 13:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lita S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz he is an a**hole?
2006-08-10 12:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋