There is this guy who looooooooooves me...i talk to him every day.
But my griend is sooo jealous!!! cuz she likes him a bit too...i don't want her to get mad cuz of me...soo WAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO??????????????????????????i can't leave him!!! I love him..and i LOVE HER cuz she's my best friend!!!
2006-08-10 05:51:01 · 32 answers · asked by $_$ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to chose one
2006-08-10 05:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by leinervh 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well in this case, you leave it up to the man. He chose you, not her. Therefore, he wants you. And your friend is understandably jealous, but she has no right to keep you two from getting together. You can get together with the guy, sure. She'll have to live with that. If you two are best friends, I'm sure she's not going to discard you or anything. Go ahead. Enjoy your relationship. You can remain friends with her too.
Of course, I'm only basing my response from what you told me. There may be some extra things, like he and her dated a while ago, or something. BUUUUUT..... based on what YOU say, the above is how I'd handle the situation. Good luck!
2006-08-10 05:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can't be your friend and is jealous of you loving the boy she can't be your friend and liking the same boy that you like. The thing is she is adopting to the fact that she is seeing too often probable or she is talking to him so she is feeling for him, you need to talk to her because she needs to find a man of her own and then she will stop being jealous tell her to relax and get off your back she is acting as if she is a child. And if this continue girl trust me she not be your best friend any more.
2006-08-10 05:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem which always happen and it does needs advice to be solve.What u must do is talk to both of them.Held a meeting for three of u and discuss wat to do.If you think it will not work,try to ask ur best friend is't true that she loves him or not.Some people says that sacrifice is one of the best thing.I know if u love a peson it will be hard to let the person go.I advice u to let ur best friend love the guy and u go and find a better guy than him
2006-08-10 06:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by Frendlygal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a guy and the hard facts are that even tho' you are in love today, either one of you could move on to someone else tomorrow. I would try having a heart-to-heart with the girlfriend and boyfriend individually. Explain how you feel. Scary now but a very mature thing to do.
2006-08-10 05:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really is your friend she should step aside and let y'all be together. On the other hand if she is truly a friend you would leave him alone ( it's a tuff question 'cuz choosing between two people you care about isn't easy) Look do a back ground check on him see if he good or a cheat and set up your friend and see if she would see him behind your back. I think that's the best way to choose.
2006-08-10 05:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by selfishladyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends always rule over guys. They'll be more fish in the sea. Dont let a guy you like come between you and your friends cuz in the end they will be the ones there for you.
2006-08-10 05:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who does he love? If the answer is "YOU", then your girlfriend is not being a REAL girlfriend. She should respect the fact that you and he are an item and she is just a friend. She should find a different guy to focus on. She needs a reality check.
2006-08-10 05:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ! if she knows dat u liek him and she knows dat he likess you and she is still jealous then she aint your best friend ! a bestfriend would want you to be happy, im not ignoring the fact that she is human, being envious is part of human nature but she could .. how can i say this.. kinda brush ita lil that she is jealous or try to forget abotu it. what can she do, some voodoo to make him like ker instead of you?
[1] talk it through with her
-best of luck!!
2006-08-10 05:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by ¤AFTERN00N L0VAH¤ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is so like me right now, except i am in your place. honestly i dont know what to do, cuz i am haveing the same problem. so i am just going to try to help you. maybe you could just try and talk to her and ask if it would be ok. my friend already hates my guts, but if your friends dosent hate your guts yet then talk to her and ask her if it would be ok if you were with him
2006-08-10 07:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it isn't up to you guys to dicide who should get the guy..he dicides who he likes,not u guys
If he likes you and your best friend is mad at you she isn't a very good friend.She should except that he doesn't like her and he likes you
same way if it's the other way around
2006-08-10 05:57:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋