2006-08-10 05:38:26 · 20 answers · asked by holly l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mr. Chivalry says, "Set ultimatums."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-10 06:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask what you need to know right after sex, a man is more likely to let the truth slip then.
2006-08-10 13:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lita S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sort of like a cross examination in a court room. You keep asking the direct questions over and over, and maybe in a different form. You finally wear them down until they finally admit the truth.
This works w/men, friends, employees, and kids.
2006-08-10 12:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not getting the truth out of him it is for a reason
he doesn't trust you not to judge...
he is ashaned of himself......
he doesn't respect you or think you deserve the truth....
he knows he has done you wrong and scared to own it.....
he doesn't want to be responsible for your feelings.....
he is afraid of the consequences....
he is narcissistic.....
he knows he can not rationalize it to you.....
People make things right in their minds by blaming others for their choices and actions. Maybe he is doing this and knows you'll call him out on it.
If you want the truth, show you deserve it, you can handle it (good or bad) and that you will not judge him, You won't persucute him, and accpet it as his. etc...
BEST BET IS TO MOVE ON AND HANG OUT WITH GUYS WHO RESPECT YOU.
2006-08-10 13:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you can find a man that will admit he is loat AND he will ask for direction,then you may be able to get the truth out of HIM. but most men wont do ant of those thing
2006-08-10 12:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by angie devine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not getting the truth why do you want it? Dump his sorry *** and find a real man.
2006-08-10 12:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men just cant tell the truth, my husband lies about everything, all the time
2006-08-10 12:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by fetter_2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tie a rope around his balls and pull till he tells you the truth
2006-08-10 12:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by jpcbbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are open to commutation and always share whats on our minds.I feel he is honest with me at all times, I believe if he was lying i would know, we have been married now 13 yr and i know every look of his expressions on his face and the tone of his voice so if i needed to really look deeper i see no problem
2006-08-10 13:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep accusing him until he tells or slip in hints that would make him think you know but you really don't like another ladies underware, or weird smells etc...
2006-08-10 14:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by honeybuzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋