i am 13 and i really want to masturbate please help ive been trying to but its just not working please help!
2006-08-10 05:31:54 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
First of all, don't listen to those people who said its immoral. Its natural and normal.
Then just relax, its not meant to be a test or a race.
Rub yourself where it feels good and you'll figure it out. The whole point of masterbating is to find out what feels good to you. No one else can tell you how to do it.
2006-08-10 05:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by Miss. A. Laneous 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Girl, I know just what you should do. Get some privacy, close your door and lock it. Wait til it's late at night or something. Just make sure you can be alone and relax. Relax, this is the fist step. Second, get yourself a hand mirror. Take a look at your vulva. Find your clitoris. Then, just experiment with touching yourself and your clit. What feels good? Try a nice rhythm. Just have a good time. This is the key. If you need more help, just send me a message.
Oh my gosh, I can't believe these people who telling you you're too young. That's nonsense. It's also nonsense to rely on a man for pleasure (don't get a boyfriend), it's nonsense that masturbation is immoral and it is nonsense that masturbation is gross. Sometimes I wonder if I'm not living in medieval times...
Just relax. It's normal, natural, healthy, and helps you to avoid premarital sex and STD's. More power to you!!! I'm proud of you for getting information on it.
2006-08-10 05:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Flutter 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Once you're naked, pull up a chair and sit on it's edge with your legs open and take a good look at your genitals in the mirror.
feel comfortable masturbating,
* Try pulling your labia gently apart and examining your clitoris and vaginal opening.
**Try gently stroking your clitoris (clit) and watch what happens in the mirror.
**Insert your finger into your vagina and see how it feels. If it feels good to you then you're doing it right
Here r some basic techniques you might like to try :
*Place your thumb and forefinger on either side of your clit and gently roll it between your fingers.
>Start slowly and gently and explore until you find the speed that works for you. A variation : use both hands and roll your outer lips between the fingers. If your clit is sensitive to the touch this can be a great technique to try.
**With two fingers placed directly on your clit move them in a circular motion. try varying the speed and position of your fingers.
*** draw circles around your clit with ur middle finger.
****trace the alphabet on your clit with your index finger.
***u may like to try placing a finger inside yourself and thrusting it back and forth (a little lubricant can be useful here) take your fingers and tap them gently against your clit, vary the speed and intensity of each tap, if you're playing music
finally try changing positions. U'll most likely be surprised just how different the sensations are as you change position. Try sitting, standing, squatting or laying on your belly as well as your back.
anyways girl hav fun, and rembr thes are just some basic techniques.
2006-08-10 06:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by rhayna20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maturbating is normal for children and adults. People who say your too young are crazy and probably dont know their own body enough to be answering a question...Honey, it is perfectly ok to masturbate and discover your own body, as far as to how to do it I will not sit here and explain "how to" But I can say explore your body and learn what feels good and what doesn't. There are several different ways to please yourself, just because you dont "get off" doesn't mean you haven't pleased yourself. You are young still and finding out what feels good is perfectly normal.
2006-08-10 05:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by mrsmomma 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well all you gotta do is rub your hand around your clitoris.... and do it in a certain of time like fast slow or medium. Whichever makes you feel good (fast, slow, medium) is good. Keep it at that paste.....Basically masturbating is having sex with yourself so do things you would do if you were actually doing......"it". Oh and make sure you have the image........
2006-08-10 05:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well Im 26 and it doesn't work for me either!! But really only 13? I dont think you should even be trying yet. And you shouldn't get a boyfriend you should find something else to interest you. Read a book or take up a sport or something
2006-08-10 05:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
U just need to take time to learn more about Ur body and what feels good to U.
Keep practing...This isn't a competition.....JUST ENJOY
Good Luck
2006-08-10 06:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by HeartsOnFire 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is very morrally wrong to do! Don't do it. That is so gross! You are going to ruin your life, because in the end you are going to start having sex and get pregnant.
2006-08-10 08:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by Isabella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey grl im 14 bout 2 turn 15 and i use 2 go threw tha same thing u should juss think of something (it doesnt matta what) that will make u feel good and use ur imagination but all i can say 2 u iz keep tryin dont feel tha need to have sex cause thats wat i ended up doin and now im pregnant so good luck cause its hard havin those **FEELINGS***
2006-08-10 05:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a girl obviously, but I am friends with many girls who masturbate. They all agree that its best to lie down on a bed and get relaxed and then play with the top of the clitorus untill aroused and once aroused to slowly enter a finger into themselves and then if they enjoy it entering another finger into the equation.
2006-08-10 05:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋