2006-08-10 05:19:07 · 9 answers · asked by starkizz4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well if you're a constant flirt then you should stop.
If you're not, then let him deal with it. If he can't handle it then don't worry you won't have to do the leaving. He'll leave you.
2006-08-10 05:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going to need to leave a insecure and jeously relationship will lead to a voilent relationship then you will be so scared you wont leave him and your self esteam will be shot nd you will never trust any one ever again and thats a scary feeling not trusting any one my sister works with this kind of stuff every day and i see some of these females after all this and there not normal any more for exsampl flash backs night mares theres a female my sister is working with now that was in a relation ship like yours and this lady is now at home but she has nailed her windows closed and blocked all the windows and will not leave her house unless shes with someone else and also shes on some serious meds but all in all i went to school with this chick and she was a good girl untill she met a jelious insecure freak and now the girl wont sleep at nigh now cause she thinks her ex is going to get her even though she knows hes in a state prison for 10 years
2006-08-10 05:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it because he isn't going to change. Let him pick out your clothes and your freinds. Let him decide where you go and when. Let him read your e-mail and look at your mobile phone records. And he'll still be jealous and insecure and you will have lost yourself in the end. But hey leaving isn't an option so as I said at the top; Get used to it.
2006-08-10 06:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay with him, you'll have to learn to like him being jealous and insecure. Get ready to put in months or years of work putting up with his insecurities. Then get ready for him to dump you for someone better, because being with someone better than you will make him feel better about himself than you can make him feel. Get ready for him to cheat on you. He'll think he might as well cheat, since you will probably cheat some day.
Have fun being miserable.
2006-08-10 05:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by El Guapo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to deal with them. Jealousy is a form of low self-esteem and there's nothing you can do for him. He has to make the change.
2006-08-10 05:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him.. u have low self esteem don't u, if u didn't u wouldn't have any problem leaving him...
u shouldn't have to keep reassuring him especially if u haven't given him a reason to be insecue/jealous..
who wants to be in a relationship where ur constantly getting harrassed.. oh i know u..
2006-08-10 05:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is key. Let him know how you feel and listen to his concerns as well. Two way communication is very important in a healthy relationship. Please stop wearing slutty clothes.
p.s. please admit yourself into a mental institute.
2006-08-10 05:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he hasta make himself see that you arent going anywhere and u still love him. make him see that you have to be free to talk to other men.
2006-08-10 05:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by Janeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that us soo hard to do..well just find out what he does wrong and rub it to his face...
2006-08-10 05:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋