he used to never delete his archives on his messanger and would rarely get on, but since he joined my space he is on every night talking to all these different girls
2006-08-10 05:09:37 · 15 answers · asked by Clints_wench 4 in Games & Recreation ➔ Video & Online Games
get a keylogger,,from download.com you can recored all his key stokes,,, its like spying on him lol and then you can his the program where can cant see it!
2006-08-10 05:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by stepfunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your suspicious of his activity then confront him about it, don't come on too strong and dont out right accuse him of anything, I would tell him "I'm becoming concerned with you internet activity, when you log off as soon as I get home and delete your archive but spend all day on there it makes me think you have something to hide and I want to know if you do need to hide something from me or not." Talk about it. If you find out he's haivng an online affair then personally I would leave him, if it isn't anything serious then see if you can come to an agreement. "Yes I understand you want your internet time and I shouldn't be so nosey but I want you to understand how I feel about the situation. Would it be alright if we made......(incert various agreement)....." and work on the problem. The key to any relationship is communication and I have to say that after 4 years with my partner we have never had a full out fight. Remember if you start to yell at him, grab his hand or pull him into a hug if he'll let you, you can't yell and scream or throw things at someone if your holding their hand and it helps the conversation to go over just that much smoother. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-08-10 05:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you married this man, then you've got a serious problem: the potential start of an affair or worse. If not, then while it won't be a complete catastrophe, it starts a bad habit anyway.
Because he's deleting the contents of his archives he's either feeling guilty about the things he's talking about, trying to keep things secret, or both. I understand the process, once being a "closet roleplayer" because my parents disapproved of who I was socializing with online. He's afraid of something and taking near-paranoid actions to cover it up, it seems.
If you can, you need to sit him down and get him to talk with you about it. Try and find out why he's deleting his archives (don't ask about the girls or his MySpace if it can be helped). More importantly, you need to let him know he can talk with you about anything and that there's no need to hide anything from one another.
If there's no positive headway on the matter you might need to seek the advice of a professional counselor or a trusted friend/relative, possibly involving him in said activities.
2006-08-10 05:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bladeron DC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW!!! nicely i theory MY husband replaced right into a mommas boy! you've married your self to an particularly immature mommas boy. The bible even says a guy is to leave his mothers and fathers and cleave to his spouse. you won't be able to stay as a married couple and make a kinfolk if he in straightforward words must be up lower than his momma invariably. Is he nonetheless breastfeeding? per chance thats why he's there each of the time LOL. Sorry yet for actual, you'll spend something else of your marriage in competition inclusive of his mom in case you do not positioned a end to it now. i'm coping with that now and its a no win situation. I absolutely imagine you want to judge different recommendations and seek for a guy who's more effective on your element.
2016-11-23 19:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by lorain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol yeah he is probably trying to hook up with them. since you already are suspicous then HE MIGHT be doing something but dont jump the gun. what you should do is create a FAKE with a good looking girl. not a model make sure its someone elses pics thats real. he will be able to tell if they are fake. then on the fake myspace account get some friends like anyone. then after like 3 days worth of friends send him a message and a freind request. make sure you have the same city down or area maybe like 10 miles away so he thinks your close. then send all these emails like you think he is cute and stuff like that but not to dirty at first. then get kinda dirty like the 4th day but not over the top. maybe talk to him for a week or sumthin then ask to meet up. if he agrees then BUST HIM!.you have to be smart too! you cant act differently towards him and do NOT MENTION ANYTHING about it at all or say anything about you think he is messing around. you want to catch him in the act. dont drop anyhints ok? if you need some more help just contact me!
2006-08-10 05:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Naddo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok so do you want someone to state the obvious for you? hes talking to other chicks and he does not want you to know about it. if he had nothing to hide he wouldnt delete his archives, right?
2006-08-10 05:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by doyalikethatdaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. If you think somethings going on it probably is. Its easy to believe what you want to believe but do you really want to be that person in the long run ???
2006-08-10 05:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by osu_fanz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you 2 should spend time together at night. if you're with him he won't be able to do that. If he spends time with you he will realize he's lucky to have you and won't want to cheat on you.
2006-08-10 05:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by missteenqueen1996 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say catch him create a fake account and get him to fall in the trap and then dump him
2006-08-10 07:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by snipe_photographer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut it off now and get rid of him. If he's being secretive, it's for a reason.
2006-08-10 05:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by Lex 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋