am i being silly?

Question

I am a very insucure prerson and dont know what to do becasue i could be toatlly wron, i think my best friend and boyfriend could be together behind my back, for example the other night he was late to meet me and he rang to say he was out by my friends sister house working and on the way, then when i asked her what she got up to for the night she toatlly lied about what time she left my friend house, said she left at 9.45 but found out it was 8.30 she left, when i asked my boyfriend wat time he started work out there he said 8.45, which would have meant if she left my friends place at 8.30 she would have got out to where he work for 8.45, she said she left my friends at 9.45 (which i now know is a lie) but at 9.45 was the time my boyfriend left to meet me, it all started me thinking this about them a few months back wen i came out of a club and saw them with her phone in his hand she said a few of them were just going bk to her place but she didnt invite my boyfriend just her friends

Answer 1

Well.. ask your boyfriend about it.. Or if you trust your girlfriend better, ask her. If you're really sure they're at it, invite them to the same place at the same time and confront them.. Ask them nicely to tell you the truth..

Answer 2

maybe they r sleeping together or going out behind u back but don't jump to conclusions. u have to ask her and him together and then tell them what u thought was going on.tell them if they wanted to see each other they should have told u if they had interest in each other and u would have understood.except they did one thing wrong lied to u about the whole thing.if they want to be together let them be and find somebody else unless u really want him and u tell them how u feel.

Answer 3

this is very confusing.
sorry, i tried to read so i can help, but i don't get it...