2006-08-10 04:41:17 · 69 answers · asked by divz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
every one of them that gets a chance.
2006-08-15 11:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well I think that it goes both ways and unfortuantely now a days there is quite a few marriages where one or even both of the spouses are cheating. It is sad that marital vows aren't taken as seriously as they should be and that people go outside of the marriage to meet their own personal needs then trying to resolve the issues within the relationship so that they can have them met there. Unfortunately, I am in the process of getting a divorce from my ex who cheated on me several times. I tried to give him the opportunity (or should i say opportunities) to change but going out with his friends and getting drunk and picking up women was more important to him then his own family. It is a high percentage of people who do this and if they only had any idea of how much pain this can cause the unknowing spouse and the degree of trust issues that will derive from their infidelity, perhaps things would be different. But then again most people are smart enough to differentiate between right and wrong but are too busy thinking about themselves to really give anything to anyone else. Despite the fact that there is a high rate for this in marriages and that I have first hand experience with this issue, I still have hope that not all marriages will end like this and that I will find someone in the future who will have enough respect for me and our relationship to not go elsewhere to meet the needs we are suppose to nuture and support together.
2006-08-10 05:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
99% out of 100% are involved in extra marital affairs. My husband have lot of extra marital affairs. I know married men who were trying to have a relationship with me.
2006-08-17 20:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
where I'm from extra marital affairs is like breathing. Its happening so frequent you would wonder why are people getting married if they cant stay committed to each other. I think about 80% of men are having affairs my husband is included in this.
2006-08-17 23:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by lady_bactran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people cheat more now too because they aren't as educated from birth about the importance of lifelong marriage and what it takes to have and keep one...not the way whole families used to educate generations ago. So now everyone thinks they're entitled to some perfect thing and they rush into things without considering the full ramifications, and then want to escape when they don't know what to do with their failing marriages that are actually a symptom of their immaturity and unwillingness to think and sacrifice. So...hmm...I'll guess it's about 6 out of 10 who more than once a week at least consider emotional cheating...if not do some of the other kinds of cheating too.
2006-08-17 12:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so strange that inspite of the vows we take, men tend to wander off in search for some comfort from nagging wife, may be better sex... or just for fun. I feel most of the men (100%)have the tendency to have extra marital affairs..some managed to have it (80%) and others manage to have it in their minds (15%), and some are just too scared of have it (5%)
2006-08-17 22:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by PC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say about 10-15%...and that's who have affairs at sometime in their lives....guys don't want to leave the relationship...they are too lazy and fear about being alone......i think that some guys have learned that affairs can jeopardize the relationship.....so i don't think the number is as high as the media says it may be
also i think the number of women in extra marital affairs is about the same as with the guys...being an 18 year old guy (single) that had a few dates and some physical action (not sex though) with a MARRIED woman....and after reading a lot of articles...it's about equal......
2006-08-17 01:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by Yogaflame 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi friend,
I think men who feel insecure in their relationship and have nothing else to do in life except keeping grudges for the partner who is more successful than themselves will keep an extra marital affair wherein he/she will try to fall in love with the similar kind of selfish person. men who are irresponsible
2006-08-16 18:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends, on weather it is physical or mental , and if it is mentally than i am sure everyone in involded in extra-extra marital affairs as we tend to divert our selves here and there a bit every now and then, which is natural for we men....
and if it is physically there are about 3 out of 10, perhaps, and those are brave, courageous or desparate hapless men who do not get there needs fulfilled at home so they stray and the brave ones are naturally inclined to seek adventures ...
2006-08-15 06:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite a few...and its not only married men anymore its married women...we are all so wrapped in our lives, career, friends, kids, etc that we forget each other and things get cold at home and that's when the looking starts....its easy now days cuz of the internet and text messaging etc...there's so many ways to communicate to someone that your spouse could have no clue as to whats going on...its sad really...america just needs to slow down cuz our families are falling apart
2006-08-17 15:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by tinker143 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to many. From all the people I know only one had an affair.
People think a lot more about affairs than having them.
2006-08-10 05:06:29 · answer #11 · answered by kw38man 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋