My boyfriend has a big group of friends and they often go on weekends away or nights out together. Every single one of them has cheated on their girlfriends at least once on these lads weekends and nights out. I know this because my boyfriend has told me. I do trust my boyfriend, he's never cheated and he's quite insecure when it comes to women. but sometimes I can't help but think what makes him so different from all his friends when theyre away?
2006-08-10 04:35:49 · 42 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
100% yes you should be worried.
2006-08-10 04:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by volchick2003 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It' ok to be suspicious. I understand the whole thing about you think what makes him so different. But, because someone hang with a group doesn't mean they're that way the others are. I know it's kind of hard not to think about especially when he's out with the other guys. But, if you trust him you try and not htink about it so much. That's hard I know
2006-08-10 04:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried. Obviously his friend's think nothing of cheating on their girlfriends. They probably encourage him to do so also and if he doesn't, they probably give him crap about it. But you also have to realize that he is an individual. Hopefully, he has better judgment and morals then his friends have. You need to tell him what you are worried about. He should understand, especially given the situations that happen when he goes out with his friends. Maybe he should stop going out so often and spend more weekends with you.
2006-08-10 04:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by jack russell girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm in a similar situation and to be honest I think it depends on the person.
Maybe I'm naive but I 100% trust my boyfriend and I know that he wouldn't cheat on me regardless of what his friends do.
Just because his friends cheat, doens't mean he does. Maybe some people are more easily influenced, but I don't think you can assume he's doing it.
Having said that, could turn out that your boyfriend is friends with my boyfriend, in which case we're both going out with cheating b*st*rds!!
2006-08-10 04:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by Wafflebox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't be worried at all cz if he was gonna cheat on you he wouldn't tell you about his friends so that you won't figure out that he's doing the same as they , trust him cz i think he's honest with you but also keep aware of him in an indirect way cz he's a guy eventually .
2006-08-10 04:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe! They say two birds of a feather flock together. Most importantly you just have to trust your man and hope that he is not going around acting like his friends. Some men can hang around people that are dogs and still maintain but it all depends on how strong of a person they are.
2006-08-10 04:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, men can sometimes be different from their friends. My ex does not smoke weed but his best friends are chain smokers and indulge in weed, he spends a lot of time with them and he has known them for at least 5 years.
All i am saying is that you should not automatically assume that he's cheating on you because of the company he keeps. Just be more aware that it could happen, but dont wait for it!!! he could be a one woman man.
2006-08-10 04:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by cassandra b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that's just silly! If you trust him then what are you worried about? I used to hang out with a group of girls who always cheated on thier boyfriends, but I never did. He would not tell you about his friends doing this if he was going to.
2006-08-10 04:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... if they believe its ok he'll be subconsciously trained to believe its ok they talk about it and of course they all justify their reasons "Oh we've only been together ______ months" or "Oh I was drunk it doesn't mean anything" he'll eventually learn to think like that. I had a couple of friends that did that and they were constantly explaining to me their justifications for cheating and I started thinking "oh well its not a serious relationship and it was only that once" you are influenced by your friends or they are influenced by you though generally when you are in the minority you are influenced by them.
2006-08-10 04:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl, a relationship is base on trust, and have you seen any proof of cheating or sign of cheating, he is a grown man, not because his friends do stuff that means he will, he can still think for himself, and he do know right from wrong, and he do tells you, about his friends weather it is good thing or bad things, and if he did he would have opend up and tell you, so just relax and enjoy him ok
2006-08-10 04:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by love_kindness 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut feeling. If it tells you to be worried then you should but if you cant trust your bf then what is the point of being with this man? Trust is everything in a relationship and if it is ever in doubt then something should be done.
2006-08-10 04:40:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋