ok well i have been using my older sisters vib behind her back. i clean it and always put it back the way i found it. as i am 16 i cant buy my own. but i do have some guilt about using it im worried she will find out. im to shy to talk to her about it. am i wrong for doing it.
2006-08-10 04:19:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
that's gross. something that er, personal should definitely not be shared. yuck. gross. ick. belch. vomit. retch. etc, etc.
2006-08-14 02:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by quack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your sister and tell her and then she might be willing to help you out by purchasing one for you. Yes, it is wrong to use your sister's and not tell her about it. But at least you do have the respect to clean it up after using it which is very nice of you. The best thing to do in this situation is talk to your sister or someone that is a little older and get help purchasing your own. There is no reason to be shy about using a vibe. There is a lot of us out here that uses them to help satisfy our needs.
2006-08-10 11:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by baby2hot4you2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was right for you to use it, you'd not feel guilty. You are guilty of wrongdoing and that's why you are afraid, cos the guilty are afraid. Talk to her, she may get mad, she may let you continue using it if that ain't wrong with her. Either way, it will lift off the weight of guilt off you.
Alternatively, just stop using it, get strong in the mind and convince yourself that you will don't need it and you will use one when you are able to buy it.
2006-08-10 11:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she will help you buy one for yourself. Or, buy one online using a money order, a lot of online stores will do "order by mail" - chances are, they are not going to ask your age and you can get a money order at any convenience store. Make sure no one opens your mail though, that might be a little embarassing.
2006-08-10 11:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my little sister came up to talk to me about wanting a vibe heck I would definatley take her to go get one... I would think of her maturing cause she came and talk to me about it.
Now however I wouldnt tell her you'd been using hers, I would personally get mad about that.
2006-08-10 11:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you found out someone was using something so personal of yours? I think it's wrong for you to use it without her permission.
2006-08-10 11:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you clean it I don't see a problem
2006-08-10 11:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u should come clean and maybe she can help u get ur own it is not sanitary to share
2006-08-10 11:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by sexyandsingle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just set your sis down and talk to her, so will understand, ask her if she will go by you one? I would of done it for my sis
2006-08-10 11:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by bdmrplemons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask her to take you to buy your own cause it is kinda gross to share that , sorry
2006-08-10 11:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by LISA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋