Heres the deal. I am a 20 year old virgin and I am experimenting a bit. Anyway, I am seeing this girl right now and she wants to finger me. If she does am I considered a virgin anymore? Also, does it hurt?
2006-08-10 04:16:42 · 13 answers · asked by Confused about life 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
yes you are a virgin! but its really up to you wheter or not you say your a virgin! since some believe you lose your virginity when you start to mess around, and others believe its once you have something penetrate you! its up to you which one you want to believe! i say its once you start to mess around! and it may hurt it may not, just tell her to be gently with you and start with one finger and gradually work your way to 2 fingers and dont rush it, stretch your vagina gradually, it may hurt it may not!
2006-08-10 04:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by nikejustdoit88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to have somebody finger you. Ask her to do it step by step. First only one finger in your vagina and slow stimulation.Thereafter, she/he may put her/his thumb or two fingers in your vagina.Ask her to stimulate a bit more then. You should also have your clitoris simultaneously stimulated for more pleasure. Do not worry about being or not being a virgin. Boys like non-virgins more than mere virgins. And virginity is all about whether your hymen (the thing which partly covers your vagina) is fully broken or not. Good luck.
2006-08-10 12:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by sm84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, technically you would be a virgin but I would say once you've been that intimate that you are not anymore. It should not hurt unless she shoves her hand up there. Just have her start with one finger and wait until you are wet (she can use her tongue, you know!) and then two or the thumb or whatever. have fun!
2006-08-10 11:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're still a virgin until you have sexual intercourse - a penis entering a vagina.
As I said in my previous post to you, try experimenting yourself. If it hurts, don't let her do it. If she has short nails, it shouldn't hurt. Have her go slow and use lube if you need to.
2006-08-10 12:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by Moxie1313 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will be a virgin. Unless she breaks your hymen. And no, it wont hurt unless she has long fingernails. Hakuna Matata (no worries!!)
Good Luck and Have Fun!!
2006-08-10 13:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by Elisey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remain a virgin until your hymen is broken. It hurts if you're dry and penetration is involved-finger or penis. so make sure you use lubrication and think happy thoughts. just remember... fear=pain.
2006-08-10 11:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by mnm34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will always be a virgin unless you've had a penis inside you and it might not hurt depend on ur body.........i can't believe your 20 and need to ask this!!
2006-08-10 11:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by shivy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will still be a virgin and no it should not hurt as long as her fingernails are clipped short
2006-08-10 11:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by STEPHANIE R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
until the Hyman is broken your are still a virgin
2006-08-10 11:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by mario c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO you will be a virgin still however if u are a lesbian maybe not, cuz u will not be having a penis in ure vagina.
2006-08-10 11:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋