What is my problem....?

thats something you have to figure for your self, i wish you would'nt though theres alot of honest guys that deserve a chance too.

2006-08-10 03:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by chris w 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋

Usually you see behavior similar to your own when a person is insecure and lacking in self confidence. You don't have much respect for yourself, so you allow people to treat you with little respect.

You need to work on your sense of self worth. You probably are modeling yourself after one of your parents. If you look closely you will probably see the same behavior.

One thing you need to work on is self validation. It doesn't take a guy to validate you. It has to be enough that you think you are wonderful. Once you get to that point you will have guys falling at your feet, and you will be able to choose a "great" guy.

This does not make you a bad person. But after you figure out what is wrong and don't take steps to correct the problem, you begin a cycle that will be difficult to get past. Just know that you are enough and you are worth it.

2006-08-10 03:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kelli C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Not only do you probably still have feelings for him, but you may be afraid of being alone. I know that was one of my problems. I was to stupid to realize I was young and pretty and could do better then. I also believe very strongly that we tend to fall for the guys that are like our dads. It would be a long story on that one of my experiences over the years and how that for some of us is not a good thing. Good luck to you and hope you find someone who is good to you.

2006-08-10 03:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Read these lines and you will get your answer...

When you feel cold and warm at the same time, when you read over the same line for the tenth time, when your heart and thoughts somehow appear to rhyme, and when a simple name conquers your whole mind, then you are in deep trouble my friend... you are in what they call, "love".

2006-08-10 03:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ashish M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋

I dont know maybe its because you love him but if he is lieing to you. You dont need him. Get you someone who is not going to do that.

2006-08-10 03:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by Berry Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋

your afraid your gonna be alone, you worry about the what happens with out him thing and just dont want to have a change change worry you get out ya never know he mite change if he really cares and want you back, put a foot down make a stand, youll see how much you feel better about yourself,

2006-08-10 03:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋

I'd say u luv him n trust him so much that u bleve evrytime he says he's changed which he probly wont. May b u shud c otha people n c how it turns out. U mite find sum1 who at least lies les that u feel da same way for. GOOD LUCK!!!

2006-08-10 04:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by Vypa69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋

Only you can answer that. Maybe you love him or just insecure and think you can't do or don't deserve better. I don't know you or the situation well enough to make a determination.

2006-08-10 03:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by Coco 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Because you think you luv him cuz when he is nice he is the best person you could ever want but there are bad parts to every relationship just make sure you are seperate cuz you can't fix the problem

2006-08-10 03:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by Beverly 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋

probably because you go for jock style guys any chance? The more tarty and smoozy and pretty boy a guy is the more chance hes a complete w*****r.

2006-08-10 03:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Octavius 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Because you're so asking to be lied to by the way you act with them that they can't help it?

There's girl who are always in violent relationships, those who always get lied to, those who get exploited financially....

Once you start respecting yourself they will respect you.

2006-08-10 03:48:48 · answer #11 · answered by justcopyandpaste 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋

What is my problem....?

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