i used family planning(two month injection) for two yrs and now i stopped last three month ago and i get some sports of period,then my bf was worried is i will get pregnat and two month later i started using the peals tablets ...but now i stopped using the tablets for aiming to be pregnant...but it seems
like am comfused ,!!b`coz my cousin says'' its gonna take me long time to get pregnant...so i dodnt know what i can do because my bf and i need a baby now.
2006-08-10 03:42:02 · 13 answers · asked by gra'' 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
What do you mean you NEED a baby now? You do not sound like you are ready to have a baby. Children are a life times commitment and are not toys to be played with and put away when you get fed up of them. They are hard work and also very rewarding but you should never have a child unless you are ready for all the changes they will bring to your life. Think seriously about the decision you are making and the reasons why you want a baby as they are not accessories.
2006-08-10 03:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a baby now. Maybe you need to evaluate your life before getting pregnant.
I used the three month shot and it took me from May to Jan to get pregnant after stopping. Sometimes it takes a while to get back to normal after birth control.
Also, if you aren't having sex at the right times it doesn't matter. You need to pay attention to your cycle. You are most fertile during ovulation so find out when that is.
Perhaps if your BF was worried you were pregant just a little while ago you aren't ready to have a baby. Be absolutely sure before you keep trying because you are going to be involving another person (the baby) and you don't want to get them into a situation where mom doesn't like daddy and they have to visit every other weekend.
2006-08-10 03:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not quite sure what you mean by need a baby now but if you have been using contraceptive for quite a while then it may not happen as quick as you are hoping. unfortunetly for some women it can take over a year to conceive after coming off of contraceptives.
one thing you can do to help your chances of getting pregnant is to chart your cycles. it does seem like a lot of effort to begin with but just becomes part of every day life after a while.
check out www.fertiltyfriends.com and they explain all about what it involves and how to do it.
the good thing about that site is that they work out all the technical bits for you so you don't have to worry if you've read the chart wrong. also you register for free!
good luck
2006-08-10 12:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DON'T need a baby now if you're still calling your man your "boyfriend". plan a family AFTER you get married. ;) it's better that way- more security with your relationship and emotionally healthy for your future child-TRUST ME! I don't think you need to worry about getting pregnant after getting off the pill and the injection. you'll be surprised at how sensitive your body is. give your body about 6 months and you'll find yourself "fertile" again. in the meantime, 6 months is enough time to plan a small wedding. :D
2006-08-10 03:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by mnm34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say your bf didn't want a baby and now your saying you need a baby now. I hope your trying to trap him because those types of relationships never work out. I would ask my doctor but I think you can still get pregnant once you stop
2006-08-10 03:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by majesticwife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have subjected your body to outside influences in the way of hormones. These are going to confuse your body's natural senses and put your timing out of sync.
However, it doesn't necessarily mean that you can't get pregnant now, just your cycle will be out of oder and the optimum moment for conception will not be predictable. So chances of getting pregnant are lowered.
Not knowning when your next period will be means that you won't know if you are pregnant.
So unless you go at it like rabbits then it will be left to your seriously lowered chances
2006-08-10 03:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by Chris F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude..but how old are you and why do you "need a baby now"? Are you and your bf financially stable enough to be able to support a baby and all of the things that go along with that?
2006-08-10 03:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a baby NOW..? u better go buy one love.. they take around 9 mths to grow..no seriously, u should speak to the people at family planning or the doc. they should be able to clarify it for u.. good luck with the baby, hope it works out for ya.
2006-08-10 04:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by mitchbrowno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand your question at all. If you are asking what you can do to increase your chances of pregnancy, I don't think there is anything specific. Don't smoke or drink, follow a healthy lifestyle and eat well, and take folic acid. That might help.
2006-08-10 04:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by justasiam29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You NEED a baby now? What's that mean?
2006-08-10 03:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by jessiekatsopolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋