2006-08-10 03:41:55 · 11 answers · asked by Unique 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are an impo rtant family member but I think you need to prove it by standing with your husband in solving the family problems.I suppose, your husband is the eldest and responsible. It may take sometime now but be patient and lovable.
2006-08-10 03:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by agni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he is not being a husband. No matter what he needs to support you and not them. Who does he think is going to be taking care of him when he is an old man... his mom? Shes not going to be around. He married you not them. Ask him who he married, you or his mom? Maybe that will get the point across. If you showed a united front there mostlikely would not be any seperation with them.
2006-08-10 03:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open, worry-free and blunt. i'm Catholic, I accept as true with some issues Islam says... particularly, there view on divorce. God/Allah ought to somewhat have people divorce an important different who doesnt lead them in route of a holy existence, than stay married to them. The Catholic Church's and mainstream Chrsitian view of till death do you section is incorrect. No free individual could could stay in a wedding ceremony the position their important different is best them down the incorrect route. further, I actually believe that Ishmael became the son to be sacrificied by technique of Abraham, not Jacob. because, Ismael seed spread in the time of North Africa and Arabia. And, the covenant between God and Abraham became Christ. the first tribes to settle for Christ were Africans and Arabs - not Jews. it is why the Apostles had to flee Jerusalem to spread the international - to the genuine recipients of the covenant.
2016-10-15 11:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, dont you hate playing that role? Of trying ot please the family and then they all turn a**holes on you? At least my girlfriend supports me mostly. I really dont like her family right now. We moved close to my family and so I felt bad cuz she felt lonely at times. My family has taken her as another daughter but her family is something totally different. Lately I feel like they're trying to brake us apart. I think that you should talk to him about it. If he feels like ur separating them then ask him why he doesnt visit them more often. You could use that time to shop or something. Other than that I really dont know what to say. He's your husband and you can surely deal better with him more than anyone else on here can. Good Luck! :)
2006-08-10 03:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by Boricua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him without getting defensive. If talking doesn't work trying talking to his family. Find a middle ground.
My husband and I had a similar problem took us nearly 10 years to work out the problems with his family but were still together going on 15 years.
2006-08-10 03:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by K C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you don't stand a chance if you and your husband are not a united front. If he's taking their side against yours, you have a big problem that may never get better. You could leave or just put up with it. At any rate, it won't get better with time.
2006-08-10 03:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a family counselor. The problem could get worse.
2006-08-10 03:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by big T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
also his famely is important, but he merried you. he should decide, but a small compromise seems to be the best way
2006-08-10 03:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, then stand up for yourself and forget about those a s s e s.
2006-08-10 03:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was years before i put my wife first .i hope he wises up
2006-08-10 03:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋