Okay, a week ago, my guy friend was telling me that he was going to the movies with my other friends. None of them bothered to call me or im me to ask if I wanted to go. He claimed that he tried to im me, but he never caught me online, that was a LIE, because I was basically on im like 24/7. So when I confronted my other friend, she said that she didn't know if I wanted to go, so just didn't think I wanted to go, and also she said that we all may act cool in school together, but outside school it would be a different thing..I was so shocked, I'm like how can you judge on how I will act, you're not my mother, you don't know how I interact with the other people we hang out -- me and my other friends talk to each other like almost everyday, so how can she say that? Was it because she didn't want me to go or what?
2006-08-10 02:40:39 · 10 answers · asked by Danyizzle 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And for the person that said it sounds as though I wanted you to say that she doesnt sound like a real friend, that's not my real reason for asking this question. I just wanted to get some advice from otheres to see their personal views. And for your information, I contributed everything to this friendship, I invited the girl over my house, and gave her the best hospitality I could offer. They're the one's that never ask me to go anywhere.
2006-08-10 08:31:04 · update #1
It sounds as though she certainly has a hidden agenda, and if I were you, once I'd been able to get over some of this anger and confusion you must be feeling, then I'd ask her to sit down with me and ask her if she realises exactly how this made you feel, ask her to put herself in your place and see if she'd feel any different.
It might be a good idea to get her to explain what she meant by 'outside of school it's a different thing' because to me, that just sounds plain horrible and I think you deserve better
2006-08-10 02:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Eden* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you shouldn't be her friend anymore. Friends are people that you can talk to inside and outside of school. And hang out with inside and outside of school. Not just inside. I think they didn't want you to go at all. Maybe something you said offended them...??? And if you want to get them back, just take another group of different friends to the movies and not tell them. Easy like that.
2006-08-10 09:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by H A N N A H(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a real friend. They were trying to leave you out. Are they trying to get together? If so, tell them you are happy for them, but that they are not treating you very well.
2006-08-10 09:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya ur rite.. thats not a real friend.... i think she didn't want to there... but ask him... and confront them both.... they may not hv a same story....but to tell u the truth... dont bother hanging with ppl like that... it's really a waste of time... hang out with friends who u can trust and respect u for who u are.. u deserve it!
good luck !
2006-08-10 09:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by abigail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question makes me feel like you want me to say that "doesn't sound like a real friend to me" but really, look at yourself... at how you contribute to the friendship... all you mentioned was the "bad things" they did. you never said anything else
2006-08-10 10:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont sound like a real friend to me. i always hang out with my friends. she mite be trying to get ur guy "friend" dont take it personal, just find some new friends and do ur own thing.
2006-08-10 09:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mike Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just didn't care to have you around. That's all or could it be that they have always been inviting you to stuff and you keep backing out?
2006-08-10 10:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she didnt want you to go cause if they really did wanted you to go, i would atleast think that they know where you live to invite you.
2006-08-10 12:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur gf has the thing for ur guy friend - whats ur interest..... Relax, its nothin'.
2006-08-10 09:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by Mephisto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bLeh! no! how can u caLL that such person a friend?
2006-08-10 09:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by mariana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋