I love two people, I'm not sure who to choose.?

Question

I love two people. Dylan and Dillon. Dillon is my ex, but I still have feelings for him. We went through alot. He says he still loves me too. Then, there is Dylan. Dylan is someone new. He loves me alot.. More than any words could express.. and I love him aswell. Im just not entirely sure what do do. Help?

Answer 1

Wow, I understand what you are going through. You've gotten a lot of good advice so far. I think that as long as you think about Dillion, you'll never be able to truly commit to Dylan. I think that you need to take maybe a weekend away from both and when you are alone then see who you miss more, who stands out the most in your mind and you then have a chance to think things out and that might help. Good Luck.

Answer 2

Wow, awfully tough situation. The obvious question that needs to be asked/answered is why did you originally break up w/Dillon? If there were underlying concerns that were never resolved you should probably move on IF you think the obstacles are just too large to overcome. The longer you are with him the more the issues that caused you to split originally will come out and stay out. The only cause friction.

It's difficult letting go of someone who you spent time, emotions and difficult situations with. However, it really isn't fair to ANYone if you are merely hanging onto a relationship that is past its zenith. You will always have a place in your heart for Dillon . . . remember, the vast majority of all relationships end in failure, it doesn't mean that you cannot cherish, learn and grow from the times you had with him.

I would suggest you cut most if not all ties with Dillon and see where your relationship with Dylan takes you. You'll never be able to give 100% to Dylan if you have an olde love in the picture.

I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 3

You have to stop and do some soul searching alone. Think about which one can you count on 100%.How long have you been away from Dillon? Its not really good to go back to someone you have already been with. There is a reason why he is an ex. I had feelings for my ex still even right before I got married. What made it even harder is we had a child together. He begged me not to get married. But I did my soul searching and remembered why he was my ex. Although we had lots of fun together and NEVER fought, I couldnt count on him for very much of anything. And he wasnt always there for me like I was for him. A relationship is supposed to be given 100% by both parties. It doesnt work if only one party is giving the 100%, and the other is not. See, He was only doing that because he knew that I was serious about someone else and that chance was gone. Catch my drift. Most men will do that. Start at you again because you are with someone else, and they like to prove that they still have a hold on you. Remember he is an ex for a reason! Hope this helps. Good luck.

Answer 4

Go with Dylan. A new broom sweeps clean

Answer 5

Well, your Dillons baby girl, so go with that. Much easier then having to create a dylansbabygirl account. You're young aren't you? Ah the drama of youth. Thanks for capital letters and punctuation though.

Answer 6

"choose Dylan"

Answer 7

You have to choose with your heart but like they say go forwards not backwards.It's your choice who do u love the most, who will be there for you,ask yourself those questions and then you will see who you should choose

Answer 8

Go for #2. You've been there and done that and if you don't break from #1, you'll keep repeating the cycle.

Answer 9

let time and brains rule don't go by feelings

Answer 10

You dont love none of them. when love hıts you, you will have no choıce.....you will know.