2006-08-10 02:12:02 · 44 answers · asked by jackie t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow. That is a bit freaky.
You don't mean your brother in the way that black people speak about their brothers do you?
Or do you actually mean your biological brother?
2006-08-10 02:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Iain T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so sad how people come on here and rip people to shreds when all she is doing is asking a question!!
My first question would be how old is your brother? You might be carrying his love and protection for you as a sibling over to a sexual thing. Don't freak out about it! I mean you don't plan on having a sexual relationship so don't loose sleep. I'm not saying you should tell him or your family because this could definitely put a strain on the relationship. At the same time I am sure when you find a love interest these feelings will disappear.
2006-08-10 02:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by toobadfaya 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I asked a question like tthis last week, and everybody gave me the same crap they are giving you! it's a shame when nobody on this site can be a bit more mature to try to help you undeerstand that you are not a nut! I'm not saying it's normal, but I woke up last week after having a dream about a sibliing that i only see twice a year. I guess even if they had some wiierd thoughts, they would never admit it for their need to "fit in" w/ the norm and be perfect.
2006-08-10 02:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are normal, you love this guy and by all accounts are quite close, you are still working out your sexual feelings and your brother is mixed up in your feelings of love and sex, dont act on this, you could loose your brother, dont wory about your fantasies thats exactly what they are, you sound like a healthy young girl to me, enjoy all aspects of your life even wierd fantasies but recognise them as just that,FANTASY.
2006-08-13 23:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by g spotlad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry Jackie, It's normal for your (human) mind to be curious, It's probably because he's a role model to you & being close family the mind will wonder more because you love him like a brother. Now as long as you don't do anything stupid, like act on your fantasy, you will get over it!
2006-08-10 02:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im sure that if you looked up a Freud's book you would find that he says thats normal. I dont think you will find anyone on this site to admit to that but people have no control over their dreams so I wouldnt worry about it.
2006-08-10 02:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by PHILLYGUY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where you live and how old is your brother?, I know nothing about your brother so I can't even help you. What you should do is either clearly describe what type of guy your brother is...or just find a man that could blow you away......get a freak like yaself....a leo is preferred in your situation....
2006-08-10 02:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to seek help, some people are black and white in answering, the grey area is this...
fantasy is one thing, theres a billion people who get off pretending its their DAD for Christ sake, (not me, mines an awol git)
it's if you actually HAVE sex WITH him people have the problem with,
I bet there's some right weird fantasys going on in many a peoples heads...
you'll get totally abused for this question
or it will be deleted by the sheep followers...
calling it incest and against God ...and so on *yawn*
is this a new thing?
one question, did you grow up with him?
or have you only met as adults?
can you add detail?
2006-08-10 02:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by littlestarr02 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask your brother to finger-blast you one time and you should get over it. If that does not help try sticking your tongue in his butt for 8-12 min while you cup his balls,this should do the trick.
If that doesn't help move to Kentucky where it is normal to have feelings of incest.
No need to thank me.
2006-08-10 03:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well here's some advice and take it for what you will......you should probably go run a warm bath, turn on some Coldplay music, and kill yourself b/c you really have nothing left to live for. When you start dreaming about f#cking your own brother, you are simply a lost cause.
2006-08-10 02:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by jmthomb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋