I've just separated from my wife this week. The last thing I feel like doing at the moment is getting together with another women, how long will this feeling last, and how long should I wait?
Sensible answers only please, this isn't a joke for me, and I won't find stupid answers funny.
2006-08-10 02:07:12 · 5 answers · asked by pantocool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think it is really hard to say.. you should just get stuck into your life and not think about it then it will just happen.. the moment i got comfortable with being single and doing things that i wanted when i wanted with my friends a potential partner just appeared out of the blue!!
i wasn't expecting it or looking and it was really hard to get out of my "all about me ways" but now i am happy, independent and with a great partner. just get to know your self for a while.. trust me it's the obvious answer but true. things will happen in due time and there is no point wasting precious time thinking about it so get out there and have some fun!!!
good luck
2006-08-10 02:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by ricky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello,
well u are feeling this way because u still care for your wife and is used to her presence in your life... u now have to adjust to living without seeing her, without doing the things u used to do together... if u are sure about living away from her then it will take some time for u to stop feeling the way u are.... take some time for yourself first, don`t jump into another relationship if u are not sure of yourself... find a hobby, something nice and interesting that will take your mind off your problems to do...hang out with your friends.talk , make jokes , surf on the internet and other stuffs..but don`t stay alone and let yourself continue to feel this way as it may cause problems for u.... if still after sometime u continue feeling like this then u might want to seek professional help... live your life, enjoy it to the maximum, life is too short to waste away...
take care
2006-08-10 02:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by vedz666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always find a few mindless shags are an excellent remedy for a broken heart. Get stuck in.
2006-08-10 02:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1` minuet
as fast as you can
as the other party walks out the door
2006-08-10 02:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling!! split with my hubby this week, i think it will be a couple of months at least.
2006-08-10 02:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋