Im on my way to be a foster care mom & I know its going to be harder on the kid then me to be asked i know that aint your real mom
2006-08-10 01:37:07 · 10 answers · asked by jacci mcann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont see a problem with any sort of living situation. You are a blessing for taking care of any child. I never heard of any sort of problem with a white kids in the care of black parents. Your goign to be a great mother. I wish you luck.
2006-08-10 01:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foster kids have soo many other issues to deal with, bigger than my foster mom is not the same race as me. Just give them a good home and help them deal with the "life of a foster child"
2006-08-11 14:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by JulyBaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see the difference. But if u are african american, then i would suggest your first choice be an african american child.
That way that questions is not obvious to EVERYONE.Just between you and the child. I am saying this because adoptions can be hard on kids as they get older as they probaly have emotional problems from being not wanted or abandonment.
2006-08-10 08:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by !@#$$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunetly with our society both situations are equally difficult due to jerks. However it matters not. The children are who matters most. You're correct in that it is harder for them but if you provide a safe and loving enviornment for them then that is all that matters. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-08-10 08:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see a problem at all. as long as the kids are taken care of,loved and explain to them . im white and my best friend is a black woman. she is the godparent to my grandson.she has people comong up to her all the time with stupid questions. she just laughs and says dont you think he looks like me?
2006-08-10 09:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not find anything strange or not ok about either way.
Maybe the perception comes from within you .........past experience.........but hopefully society is moving on from all the old norms. I say that cos my own ,mother would have had difficulties with either senario.
2006-08-10 09:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both situations are equally difficult
2006-08-10 08:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by dwh12345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society is rough. As long as you keep them in Christian faith, they'll be fine.
2006-08-10 08:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as common,but I don't see this as odd!
2006-08-10 08:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuz ppl r mean!
2006-08-10 08:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋