I want to ask the couple who are happy with marriage. Did you ever have hard time or problem b4 married?

Question

Did you ever had problem with ex bf or gf? did they make troble to your life? If yes .. what do you do with your spouse or ex.

I am woman. I broke to my bf because i was very feel uncomfortable with his ex gf and girls. I decided to tel him to seperate. Now it is almost 3 months.I still love him. But i choosed to let him go and let my heart free from those girls. I am now feeling happy because nobody make me hurt. But he is nice guy that why girls like to be around him but they do not respect me at all. He still sending me gifts from his treveling. He still talk on phone and skype and sms to me but we never met since i decided to broke. We almost get wedding. He took me to see his family and do those stuff about making new family. Those girls fighting a lot to win his heart. Finally i not strong enough to see he go to see those girls whenever he wanted and she wants , without me. I didnot know what were they talk about .. why they really must see.. He is businessman. I know he wants to make network for his work but i can not stand.

Answer 1

well i'll start out by saying me and my husband has been together 8 years but married 2.and yes we had problems before marriage,everyone does nothing is perfect.it is a process,when your dating someone you should be getting to know each othere,.each othere likes and dislikes,what each of you are looking for in a person,how each of you feel about trust,commitment,honesty (etc).especially if this is something that's going to be long term.those are things you don't want to wait to after the marriage to find out.but don't think that after marriage, there aren't problems because there are.it's being able to communicate,compromise and work through what ever the situation is that makes for a strong marriage.not only those things, but you have to respect each otheres opinions,and always remember that marriage is always a we thing not I.it seems to me that there is a lack of trust,communication and respect.until both of you start addressing those things, marriage should be very far down the line.i can't say if he's cheating that's your man that's for you to answer,but i will say that theres alot of growing that you guys have to do apart and especially together.i will say this if things are like you say they are you don't want to marry right know.love is not enough to marry a person because marriage is so much more than love.

Answer 2

Since you were the one who had a problem with the way he lived his life, it is better that you're no longer together. It was a wise decision for you to break it off. You don't need to be in a relationship where your partner makes you feel insecure. Enjoy your freedom and just remain friends with him.

Answer 3

I think you already know your answer. Good Luck..

Answer 4

I had trouble with him cheating on me.

Answer 5

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